Hannah, 27

What's the sexiest thing about Mormons? 
That's a good question. We're known as a happy, positive people. We're very family-oriented. Maybe the sexiest thing is our suppressed sexual nature… that was a joke.  
 
What's the best thing about dating a Mormon? 
Well, when you're dating a Mormon, usually you aren't having sex, so you really get to know that person. You get a better sense of their intentions. It tends to be a little bit more real — you can really find out if the other person is compatible with you. But at the same time, I think you have to have sex with somebody to understand how it is to be intimate and close to them. You need both sides!  
 
Why are Mormons better in bed? 
I would say they hold sex in higher regard. Sex is something you save for the right person and it's a way to really connect with somebody. Although, you don't really have a lot of experience, so I guess some people are naturals and others have horrible honeymoon experiences. I really want there to be a movie about how awkward Mormon honeymoons can be. It's such a weird concept to go pretty much your whole life with no one seeing you naked — I mean people mess around, but you're not supposed to — and so you're dating somebody and you're just kissing and then all of the sudden, you get married and its supposed to be okay for you to be naked and have sex with each other. And for some people, I think that’s too much.  
 
I'm totally broke and my lease is up in three weeks. My boyfriend of four months, who has plenty of money, suggested that I move in with him for awhile. Would it be wrong to accept his offer? 
I don't think so. Four months is not too long and not too short. But, the way you included the fact that he has a lot of money sounds like you want to take advantage of it. I mean, if he's offering and it's not like you're pressuring him to let you move in, it might actually make the relationship better. So if you don't have another option, do it. But I wouldn't view it as a permanent living situation.  
 
I was raised in a very religious household, and even thought I'm no longer involved in that faith, I still have feelings of guilt after sex. Am I doomed to feel bad about sex forever, or is there a way to escape my upbringing? 
I actually went through this for awhile. Not necessarily feeling guilty about sex, but the way you've been raised is something you can't really escape, unless you completely cut it out of your life. Religion plays a big part in the way that you develop, and you have ideas instilled in your head your whole life and then at some point you realize you don't feel this way anymore, but in your subconscious they're always there. As far as feeling guilty, I don't think you should feel guilty about something that's meant to happen. Anatomically, it makes sense for us to have sex; it's something amazing to do. I'd feel guilty if I were using it in the wrong way. If you were selling yourself down on the street, maybe you could feel guilty about that.  
 
I am a woman and I'm going to meet my girlfriend's family this weekend. I know they aren't very accepting of her sexuality, so I'm nervous. How do I brave the weekend? Should I avoid holding her hand and other public displays of affection? 
I would probably go into it a little on the slow side. The main thing is that they like you as a person, so be yourself. Be as open or friendly as you can. If you want to hold her hand, do it. Sometimes, you have to put other people in situations that make them uncomfortable. Otherwise they won't be able to adjust.  
 
This cute boy asked me out, and we really hit it off. On the second date, he revealed that he has a girlfriend and he's in an open relationship. I'm confused and don't have experience with this. I'm wondering if my jealousy over his girlfriend is justified or irrational.  
Ugh. Abort. I personally feel like anybody who's in an open relationship has a fear of commitment. I actually have dated a married couple that was in an open relationship, I'll be honest. It was really hard because jealousy was such a big issue. She was jealous of me, I was jealous of her, he was jealous of the other people I was hanging out with when I wasn't with them. It was not a healthy situation. Feeling jealous is completely normal, I think. You shouldn't have to split your time or energy so that somebody else can be with another partner. Personally, I'd be offended, because it's like, "Well, I'm not fully satisfied just by you, so I'm going to someone else for whatever else I need."  
 
My boyfriend is still friends with his ex-girlfriend. They get lunch together a couple of times a month. I am not invited. Should I be jealous? 
No. There are certain people you will always connect with and care about, not necessarily in a sexual way, even if you have dated them. Maybe if you've been around the two of them, you can gauge whether if the situation is friendly or if something else is going on. For the most part, if they're just causally getting lunch a few times a month, and if he's letting you know about it and he's being upfront, I'd say it's cool of him to still be friends with an ex.