I'm sorry about sending this letter to you via snail mail. I don't want to send an e-mail because I'd rather not have a record of… Dan Savage | 09.15.2010 | Comments (9)
A few nights ago, I got drunk and knocked on my roommate's door and confessed my attraction to him while he was lying in bed in nothing… Dan Savage | 09.8.2010 | Comments (22)
Here's my problem: I love women. I love the way they look, I love the way they move, I love the way they sound. I like to see them naked.… Dan Savage | 09.1.2010 | Comments (14)
I lost my virginity last night. I'm a straight male in my early thirties, so it was about time. It wasn't awkward, and we had… Dan Savage | 08.25.2010 | Comments (25)
My boyfriend and I are straight college students, and he’s always wanting to try new things. Recently, he asked to put a finger in my… Dan Savage | 08.18.2010 | Comments (12)
Longtime reader, first-time mailer. A long while ago, you wrote an incredible piece of general advice for teenage boys. The advice was so… Dan Savage | 08.11.2010 | Comments (6)
My boyfriend and I have "history." We dated casually and weren't ready to stop seeing other people, so we had an open… Dan Savage | 08.4.2010 | Comments (9)
Ever since hearing you say on your podcast that all men use porn, I have had a burning question: what about us women? If all men get a pass… Dan Savage | 07.28.2010 | Comments (57)
I was recently told that I am being puritanical and self-righteous because I can't get over the fact that my partner spends a good deal… Dan Savage | 07.21.2010 | Comments (9)
My boss/CEO lives and works in a different city, but most of her mail arrives at my office because it is the company's official address.… Dan Savage | 07.14.2010 | Comments (9)