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Savage Love: On Mormons and porn

Savage Love: On Mormons and porn

I'm sorry about sending this letter to you via snail mail. I don't want to send an e-mail because I'd rather not have a record of…
Savage Love: I threw myself at my roommate. Am I a sexual predator?

Savage Love: I threw myself at my roommate. Am I a sexual predator?

A few nights ago, I got drunk and knocked on my roommate's door and confessed my attraction to him while he was lying in bed in nothing…
Savage Love: I love women, but I'm afraid to talk to them. How can I get over my shyness?

Savage Love: I love women, but I'm afraid to talk to them. How can I get over my shyness?

Here's my problem: I love women. I love the way they look, I love the way they move, I love the way they sound. I like to see them naked.…
Savage Love: I finally lost my virginity, and I was underwhelmed. What did I do wrong?

Savage Love: I finally lost my virginity, and I was underwhelmed. What did I do wrong?

I lost my virginity last night. I'm a straight male in my early thirties, so it was about time. It wasn't awkward, and we had…
Savage Love: I have intense fantasies about cheating on my girlfriend — with a man. How can I stop mind-cheating?

Savage Love: I have intense fantasies about cheating on my girlfriend — with a man. How can I stop mind-cheating?

My boyfriend and I are straight college students, and he’s always wanting to try new things. Recently, he asked to put a finger in my…
Savage Love: Dan's eternal advice for hard-up teenage boys.

Savage Love: Dan's eternal advice for hard-up teenage boys.

Longtime reader, first-time mailer. A long while ago, you wrote an incredible piece of general advice for teenage boys. The advice was so…
Savage Love: I want a threesome, but I'm worried about what my boyfriend will think.

Savage Love: I want a threesome, but I'm worried about what my boyfriend will think.

My boyfriend and I have "history." We dated casually and weren't ready to stop seeing other people, so we had an open…
Savage Love: If all men are allowed to watch porn, why can't I?

Savage Love: If all men are allowed to watch porn, why can't I?

Ever since hearing you say on your podcast that all men use porn, I have had a burning question: what about us women? If all men get a pass…
Savage Love: My boyfriend's favorite YouTube videos are freaking me out.

Savage Love: My boyfriend's favorite YouTube videos are freaking me out.

I was recently told that I am being puritanical and self-righteous because I can't get over the fact that my partner spends a good deal…
Savage Love: I accidentally IM'd a porn link to my boss. How do I clear the air?

Savage Love: I accidentally IM'd a porn link to my boss. How do I clear the air?

My boss/CEO lives and works in a different city, but most of her mail arrives at my office because it is the company's official address.…