June 19 2009, 05:16A
"If your man is unaware that he has never given you an orgasm, then it is not his fault. I am a woman, but I feel for guys because they are expected to achieve in the bedroom in a way that women are not. They are expected to know what a specific woman needs to have an orgasm, what turns her off, what turns her on. This applies to experienced lovers because no two women are exactly the same, yet men are judged for not knowing - they need to know what it is you want and need to get off. If you keep quiet then what do you expect. And, not having an orgasm, as a lot of women know, is not the disaster that men might think it is. It could be some kind of emotional block that has nothing to do with how much they are enjoying the sex and perhaps more importantly the intimacy. I just think guys get a bit of a hard time. As long as they are willing and unselfish in bed then the rest is up to you, to guide them, to talk to them...I am pretty sure that's what most guys want. They want to feel you are happy, not suffering in silence, or enduring sex."
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