Andy, 25

What’s the best reason to date someone who works in a sex store?
Freebies! Vendors want you to have experience with their toys. Every once in a while a vendor will come by and give the staff free lube or free vibes. It helps in giving the staff a real “hands on” idea as to how the toy works.


Are people who work in sex stores better in bed?
I get this question a lot actually; I think there’s an extra level of pressure on us. But just because someone has all the right tools, it doesn’t mean they have all the right moves. 

Is it wrong to date someone who works in a sex store for the discounts?
When I first started here, I got lots of friends asking for my discount. My reply was, “If you’re not using it with me, you’re not getting my discount.” I’m kind of a lot to deal with, and I don’t know if any discount really is enough for someone to want to put up with me.

I masturbate (via vibrator) at least twice a day. Can a woman lose all the sensation in her clitoris from excessive masturbation?
Gosh, I’m jealous of the amount of free time you have. The short answer is no. The body actually develops and grows new Hooksexup endings to respond to vibration, one of the ways it responds is to help you reach orgasm faster. You might wish to diversify your sensation or masturbation style if you find a toy that was once effective is no longer doing the trick. This, however, is not from being desensitized by the toy but from getting used to it.

Is two months too early to fall in love with someone?
Depends. There are many different types of love, just like there are many different types of relationships. Does falling in love mean finding the one you plan to be with forever? Or does it mean finding someone unique and beautiful, even if just for a little while? I think you should fall in love whenever you can, and enjoy every type of it.


My boyfriend loves when I swallow. I hate it! I know there are foods to sweeten it up, but he doesn’t taste bad. It’s a texture thing. Is there a way to make oral sex more pleasurable for me?
There are a few different things you can do. First, you can see how he feels about coming on other places of your body - chest, face etc. If it’s particularly a mouth thing, you can always suck him off in a condom. That way he still gets the feeling of sucking during ejaculation but you don’t get any in your mouth. One recommendation: put a little lube inside the condom to make everything extra smooth and wet.

In order to come, my boyfriend “needs” to watch porn while we have sex. Am I doing something wrong in the bedroom?
Not necessarily. Some people just respond to different things. For example, he might be specifically turned on by watching people fuck while fucking. I doubt it’s that you’re not enough to please him. Why don’t you make him a sexy video of yourself for him to watch while you guys hook up? 


This guy I’m seeing is great. But he has a smaller penis - like, four inches erect. I heard that a penis pump could make it larger. Is this true? If so, how do I politely suggest he use one?
Penis pumps are toys to stimulate the penis. While they do increase the size of your penis while using, the penis doesn’t stay that size when removed. It’s very uncommon that when two people get together, their equipment is perfectly matched. They may have too wide of a penis, not curved enough, fingers too short, fists too big, etc. That’s why your best tool in the bedroom is your creativity. Maybe he can finger you, or fuck you with a longer dildo before or after. Also, there are different positions you can use to help smaller penises feel deeper. Try them out on him!


Is it weird that I’m not turned on unless a girl’s vagina is completely bald?
Not at all. Some people really love hairless genitals. In the same respect, some people really love the look and feel of natural pubic hair as well. For me, it’s what’s inside that counts.

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