Sex Advice from MILFs

By Sarah Schwab

Denise, 45

What’s the best reason to date a MILF?
We're done playing games. We know what we want and aren't afraid to let you know.

Are MILFs better in bed?
Of course we are. We’re more adventurous and willing to try new things. We're closer to perfecting the art of making love. Like they say, practice makes perfect.

Is it bad to have sex with a MILF just to say, “I had sex with a MILF”?
Nope. Just like it's not bad for the MILF to brag that she's had sex with a young, hot stud muffin.

My boyfriend said that sucking on an Altoid while giving me head will intensify the sensation. Is this true? Also, is it safe?
I haven't tried that, but I’ll check it out and let you know. On the safety front, you have to be careful when having fun with food; it can cause the dreaded yeast infection.

My boyfriend shaves his armpits when the weather’s warm. He says it cools down his body temperature. Is it weird that his summer grooming practice freaks me out?
Definitely odd, but to each to his own. If he's comfortable with it, what's the harm?

I was looking for toothpaste in my boyfriend’s toiletry bag and came across a prescription bottle for Viagra. He’s only thirty and I’m worried. What’s going on down there that he’s not telling me about? Should I confront him about it?
Take it as a compliment; he is trying to please you. Ask him if he's healthy and observe his activity level in other arenas. If he is still pursuing athletic activities, rest assured that the Viagra is for your benefit.

My boyfriend is still friends with his ex-girlfriend. Should it bother me that they get lunch a few times a month?
This should only bother you if you found out from a third party, or if you are never included. It shows maturity on your guy’s part that he’s able to maintain a friendship with an ex. He’s able to separate sex and attraction from liking someone's personal characteristics.

This girl I’m dating – a self-proclaimed feminist – recently confessed that she likes being choked while having sex. I care about her and want to make her happy, but I’m a little weirded out. Should I go through with it?
Try it, you might like it. Doesn't sound like a feminist practice to me, but our sexual desires often run counterintuitive to what we project to the outside world.

Should I be ashamed about the number of sex partners I’ve had?
No shame, your experience has made you the sexual being you are today. However, remember most people are judgmental – so share that info judiciously.

My friend said her boyfriend has stronger orgasms when she attends to his ass with her fingers. I heard that a guy's G-spot is located back there. I want to ask my boyfriend about it, but I'm afraid he'll think I'm weird. Any advice?
Your friend is right. Start by lightly stroking the area behind his balls with your fingertip getting closer and closer to his anus. His response should lead to the next step. Once you’re stroking him, go lightly. Let his response guide from there.