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    29. High Fidelity
    John Cusack atones for making other dudes look schlubby in contrast to Lloyd Dobler. His Rob Gordon makes the rest of us look good. As he himself notes, he's a fuckin' asshole, though not without a certain charm. Besides that credit, High Fidelity is also the rare Hollywood rom-com that's honest about long-term commitment. Rob's proposal to Laura should be bronzed.
    Best scene to make a move: "Most of the Time." — PS


    28. Brokeback Mountain
    Romeo and Juliet leaves us flat. It's just too dated, too bourgeois. But Brokeback Mountain, the story of two lovers who stand together against the hostility and ignorance of the whole world (between fishing trips), will give even the most heterosexual date the urge to write silly romantic poetry. Plus, Jake Gyllenhaal pulls off a moustache against all odds, which will make your date's ludicrous hair or accessories seem sort of okay.
    Best scene to make a move: When Ennis and Jack punch each other goodbye — in the face — right before they part ways for four years. — WD
    27. Sabrina
    My girlfriend had just broken up with me, and I was stuck in Paris when I was supposed to be visiting her in Spain. The city's innumerable beautiful women caused me six degrees of pain, and the girl in the hostel who I asked to the movies was shipping back to Argentina before the next showtime, so I ended up seeing the truly romantic Sabrina all by myself, at the back of a little arthouse near the Sorbonne. (The girl at the counter was gorgeous too, incidentally, but I figured she'd already seen it). As for the film, it's Billy Wilder, Audrey Hepburn and a grumpy Humphrey Bogart, all at the peaks of their power. Needless to say, I barely kept it together, but looking back, I'm glad I went.
    Best scene to make a move: The last scene. — Peter Smith

    26. An Officer and a Gentleman
    A young Richard Gere smolders as rebellious Zack Mayo, a naval aviation officer candidate, in An Officer and a Gentleman. Mayo and his naval buddy Sid Worley waste no time in bedding two local factory workers, Paula Pokrifki (Debra Winger) and Lynette Pomeroy. The ladies are looking for a way to escape their hometown, and can think of no better way than becoming "aviator wives." Drama ensues for both couples; while only sadness is in store for Sid and Lynette, romance is in store for Mayo and Paula.
    Best scene to make a move: There's no better time than the final scene, as Mayo carries Paula out of the factory where she works, toward their new life together. It's foolproof: men in uniform put everyone in the mood. — KG

    25. Singing in the Rain
    This giddy musical comedy tells the story of two beloved silent-film stars, played by Gene Kelly and Jean Hagen, who are struggling with the transition to "talkies" — struggling, because Jean Hagen's character has a speaking voice that could shatter glass. When Kelly's character falls in love with a sweet-voiced chorus girl, played by Debbie Reynolds, an ingenious solution presents itself. The film is practically a montage of memorable moments, but Gene Kelly dancing in the gutters during a rainstorm may be the finest expression of unadulterated joy ever captured on film. Who hasn't woken up the morning after getting laid and felt like swinging on a lamppost?
    Best scene to make a move: To romance a reluctant Debbie Reynolds, Gene Kelly brings her to an empty soundstage, turns on a spotlight and a wind machine, and serenades her with "You Were Meant For Me." — GW
    24. The Descent
    How many groups of spelunking hot women do you know? Probably none! To remedy this, watch The Descent, one of the best horror movies in recent memory. Six women get trapped in an uncharted cave populated by "crawlers," sallow human-like creatures that kill. It'll make you scream — a good tension-reliever. You'll want to squeeze someone's hand or arm during the scariest parts, which could happen spontaneously, or at least look like it did.
    Best scene to make a move: After the cave collapses and the women realize they're stuck. It's early enough that you won't miss any of the crawler-action and the movie is terrifying enough that you won't want to let go once you're holding on to someone, so you'll get to stay entwined for at least a few more minutes. — S. Hepola

    23. Moonstruck
    This is the romantic comedy for people who hate romantic comedies. Why? At every turn, the smart, sensible characters tell the sentimental, lovestruck characters they're acting like idiots — then sleep with them anyway. Cher plays Loretta, a middle-aged but still smokin'-hot woman who believes she'll never find true love because she has "bad luck," as evidenced by the fact that her first husband got hit by a bus. She agrees to marry boring Danny Aiello because she's eminently practical and knows no one better will come along. Then, when she's contacting family members before the wedding, she meets her future brother-in-law — the sweaty, tortured, Puccini-obsessed Ronny, played by Nicolas Cage — and falls hopelessly, inconveniently in love.
    Best scene to make a move: When Loretta tells Ronny that she can't see him anymore. As snow begins to fall around them, Ronny tells her: "Loretta, I love you. Not like they told you love is, and I didn't know this either, but love don't make things nice — it ruins everything." Then he tells her she's going to sleep with him, and she does. — GW


    22. The Hustler
    For sheer macho swagger, it's hard to beat Paul Newman wielding a cue stick and a cigarette. George Clooney wishes he were this charming. The Hustler is a perfect combination of macho poolhall debauchery and love story, though it all ends tragically. Newman is the classic antihero: Men want to be him, and frankly, women wish men could be him, too.
    Best scene to make a move: Any poolhall scene. While they set up the shot, make yours.
    S. Hepola


    21. Me and You and Everyone We Know
    You have to love a movie that reminds you there's someone out there for everyone. When cab driver and video artist Christine (Miranda July), first meets shoe salesman Richard (John Hawkes), you'll be so grateful to be with your date (and not either of them), you won't be able to resist making a move. That's the perfect time, too, because you don't want to miss some of the later, funnier scenes involving Richard's two sons, two neighborhood girls and some very unusual cybersex. — KG

    20. Manhattan
    Woody Allen's romantic masterwork (no, it wasn't Annie Hall) is more about falling for a city than it is about real-life relationships. The Gershwin score, those long, loving shots of skyscrapers and bridges — it's a ridiculously soft-focus version of a place where homeless men regularly shit themselves on the subway. But Allen shoots Manhattan in the same way we fall in love: by focusing on the beautiful, and cropping all the trash and ugliness out of the frame.
    Best scene to make a move: Woody Allen and Diane Keaton's flirtatious, rainy-day visit to the planetarium. — S. Hepola

    Commentarium (23 Comments)

    May 19 07 - 7:17pm
    JOM

    City of Angles did it for me back in the day.
    The secene were they finaly hook up to Angel

    May 20 07 - 1:34pm
    JP

    I totally agree with your inclusion of Cinema Paradiso. However, it should be noted that one should see the regular version that showed in the theaters, and NOT the Director's Cut. I repeat - do NOT watch the Director's Cut. It includes 45 minutes of completely unnecessary extra footage that totally ruins an otherwise wonderful movie.

    May 22 07 - 11:54am
    mgt

    Wow-an affair to remember is not on the list. Amazing.

    May 23 07 - 4:27pm
    AM

    i'm all about the getaway and, strangely, the elephant man.

    May 24 07 - 2:46am
    BRB

    New to your site. Interesting and potentially helpful content. Just checked out "The 50 Best Date Movies".

    Come on.

    You included "Triplets of Belleville" and left out "9 and 1/2 Weeks"? I'm shocked and appalled. The former is practically an abstinence pill and the latter has "sexy time" written all over it. WTF?

    Jul 06 07 - 11:45pm
    HTD

    Great list, thank you. A few comments, some suggestions.

    Ironically, I can't get behind either the quintessential date movie "Annie Hall," or "Manhattan." One is, as you say, a post-mortem. The other too cynical, even after Woody runs back to Mariel. For Woody date movie material, I'd suggest "Sleeper" waaay before these.

    You undersold "Edward Scissorhands" as adolescent angst 101. Goodness, it's a metaphor for a type of fated, futile love affair beset by the ugliness of the world. But, yes, maybe too sad, even with the wonderousness of octogenarian Wynona dancing in the snow in the final scene?

    I'd add Hitchcock "Vertigo," or maybe better, "North by Northwest." Obvious, perhaps; but you can't top the sex-play dialogue Grant and Marie Saint have over cocktails in the dining car.

    Preston Sturges's "The Lady Eve" with Stanwyck and Fonda. Sexual relations as an elaborate con, but Barabara clearly fools herself she's playing top from the bottom, when the reverse is true.

    The original "Swept Away," from Wertmuller.

    And, respectfully, what's the John Cusack fixation? John hasn't had a real deal role since "The Grifters."

    Finally, a little known Burt Reynold's-Dyan Cannon movie, "Shamus," set in New York when both were still hot and could play a straight role (as in not caricatured). This, during Burt's "Deliverance" period. He's a low-rent detective, she's priviledged but frustrated. You must find it if only for the pool table scenes - Burt makes a bed of a billiards table in his crappy Queens studio. Sexy, touching and unsentimental, and a historical look at what was once swinging New York.

    Feb 12 08 - 9:56pm
    mh

    the list should include a few more horror flicks, cuz those sure make me grab my sweeties arm. and whats up with all the black and whites? while I like 'em I sure as heck couldnt pay my better half to watch 'em.

    Aug 25 08 - 2:47pm
    SPL

    Breakfast at Tiffany's?
    Amelie?

    Oct 08 08 - 5:55pm
    DH

    Great list! But I really miss "Serendipity" starring John Cusak and the always so beautiful Kate Beckinsdale.

    Nov 30 08 - 12:11pm
    PMR

    Did anyone ever see "Personal Best" with Mariel Hemingway. That movie could get you laid

    Aug 28 10 - 7:25pm
    Big Mike

    You've got a lot of Hooksexup putting up Triplets, Star wars, and Rear Window. These are movies that need to be enjoyed unimpeded, I know it sounds like a geeky thing to say, but being reduced to background noise is something that should be reserved for real trash, not movies that work hard to entertain. You want a movie to make out by? Get one of the Scary movies since you won't bother with a plot.

    Nov 17 10 - 11:42am
    JG

    True Romance with Slater and Arquette. Action, adventure, and Walken.

    Jan 22 11 - 5:09am
    Jason

    Where's "Benny & Joon"?

    Feb 18 11 - 11:11am
    janessa

    Are you know mr Donovan?

    Aug 07 11 - 12:48am
    Dino

    How about Ghost, that should be number one? Not even top fifty?

    Sep 18 11 - 1:46pm
    Kirrangelique

    I think Lost Boys would make a good date movie. It's funny, it's sexy, it's got a bit of blood and action, and vampires. Best time to make a move would be the love scene between Star and Michael.

    Sep 30 11 - 10:12am
    KD

    What about The Notebook??? Awesome date night movie!

    Nov 20 11 - 7:03pm
    DJ

    Dear John can do some work, if I do say so myself.

    Mar 10 12 - 2:54am
    carissa

    OMG KUCH KUCH HOTA HAI! <3 i hate Hollywood Romance films, Bollywood romance is so much sweeter without all those stupid sex scenes! Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge would of been good on this list too. (has the same actors as Kuch Kuch Hota Hai) <3

    Apr 03 12 - 1:27am
    Jake Summz

    Odd movie: but I ALWAYS get laid during Clockwork Orange.

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