Since I am 60 and a San Diegan, I thought coaches Katherin Scott and Patti Feinstein made the most sense for me. I have dated quite often and after two marriages and two divorces, I have finally met a great woman in an area bulging with attractive available women. That initial meeting was "Bam"--chemistry at work. But emotional and mental maturity must be part of it. She is very attractive, slim and blessed with great skin, hands and legs. Minimal makeup, poised, great posture and a sense of humor. A womanly voice, not the little girl voice so many women seem to hold on to. How singles can rave about online dating is beyond me; the first five minutes are so crucial to any further relationship. Woman have told me that they know within a few minutes whether a man will ever see them naked. Is this not true? I can pass for a healthy 50 as I am slim, well built, and have been told I resemble a cross between Michael Douglas and Robin Williams. I am a non smoker, drink little and use no meds or street drugs. Thanks for the column.
--MBD
08/21 |
I've found that if I don't have sex on the first date I never get to the second date. It seems natural to me. We have sex because we hit it off well. If we hit it off well we see each other again. One of the advice people said these people live "shallow lives." I am quite confident I do not live a shallow life. Also, I have to concur, that e-sex thing was going great with the painted nails until it stopped at the abs. Huh? Is their day job a personal trainer?
--ajh
07/29 |
I enjoyed the feedback far more than the column this week.
--CLS
05/19 |
how come the women were the only ones who answered the "sex on the first date" question? I wanted to hear what the men had to say about that one.
--TY
05/18 |
Jesus fucking christ! The one time you have on somebody my age to give advice and you have *these* walking boneyards? Here's some advice: 1) It doesn't matter how many times you date or who you've dated before. Every time you start dating someone it's from Square One. 2) If you're in your mid-40's and still need advice? It. Ain't. Happening. Pray for reincarnation. 3) Everyone lies. Everyone. And you're going to get hurt. Deal with it or drink heavilly. 4) And the people who put out? They are insane. Selah.
--TWB
05/17 |
"all jerky like nervous poodles"...? he sounds like a real charmer himself.
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05/17 |
"My red nails are slowly running over my tight abdominals." Are you fucking kidding me?!?!
--SS
05/17 |
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