Under the cover of this thing called "my new job", I meet and befriend a cavalcade of smart, straight men — a species I've lived without since splitting up with a Big Love nearly a year before. On the night of the Content Producers' big kickoff party, I'm the first one downstairs. Basking in the summer-evening warmth of the sidewalk, I watch the junior staff pour out of the elevators and ricochet around the lobby like a sackful of superballs. (What I didn't discern at the time: within two years, four of them would be married or engaged to each other.) At the party, the dorkily handsome Australian web designer attaches himself to me. I've never really spoken to Webby before, but I'm flattered by his attention and charmed by his quick wit. I don't particularly trust either, but after six glasses of Sancerre, what sensible girl wouldn't snag a half-bottle of champagne, hide in the coatroom of the empty upstairs bar, and make out with him like a randy teenager for an hour? When I find out that Webby is notorious for this kind of thing, I don't even care. Adrift in a sea of options, I'm rapidly shedding my chronic libido-crippling shyness. That's how I find the Hooksexup to pursue Billy, the twenty-four-year-old son of a noted theater producer who's also a design
I lay my head on Billy's broad chest for almost a year, at first in secret. I cautiously out us to good friends at work as they start to look askance at our suspiciously synchronous cigarette breaks or similar-sounding vacation plans. One particularly loathesome assistant starts giving me knowing looks, so I draw her into conversation, mention Billy in passing, and let her ask me about him. I deny anything untoward but entrust her with the "secret" that I — hey, doesn't everyone? — have a little crush on him. Billy and I continue dating in privacy until we're finally tired of arguing all the time. He leaves the Content Producers, and soon afterward, I leave him. He promptly takes up with someone at his new job. For several weeks, I am a mad kissing bandit, both at work and in my larger life. One day, my buddy Mack, the daddy of New Business Development, takes one long, wolfish look at this new swing in my step and yells down the hall after me, "Hey baby, you want some fries with that shake?" As it happens, I do. Mack, who's about fifteen years and eighteen salary levels my senior, has a lot more to lose than I do.
After a year-and-a-half with the Content Producers, I'm a little fatigued. I know that I don't want to fool around with Francis the copywriter as soon as I take his glasses off. He stands there blinking at me like a stunned bat, apparently wondering what's going to happen next. I want to shout, "Some sort of sex act happens next, so get it going!" And I'm frustrated that my job isn't changing anymore. The fun is over, so I get some lucrative freelance work at a more established company, The Content Recyclers. On my first day there, I discover that I will be sitting right next to my one-time fling, Webby, and two chairs down from another Content Producer I once knew — I'll call him BJ. If they hadn't put the copier across the hall, I might've been surrounded. Everyone hears — and has — tales of career-immolating disaster: Getting caught in the powder room with two grams and a topless intern at the boss's Christmas party; obsessively dressing for, and walking past the office of, the person you kissed after a work event six weeks ago and immediately became invisible to; fending off the needy boss who mistakes an assistant's eagerness-to-please for a secret love. These projects, once launched, tend to end badly. I think I got lucky. My pride got wounded, and I obsessed about a few guys I didn't even like that much, just because they were there. But despite the occasional whispered speculations about my leisure activities, I was never the center of an office scandal. Either I have a gift for giving my notice just in time, or else bringing work home with you isn't what it used to be. Perhaps the culture of the workplace has expanded to include as many diverse expressions as the American family. Perhaps post-post Baby Boomers are the first to have the luxury of using the corporate ladder as a prop in our libidinous gymnastics routines. At least I'll never be fired for not getting along with people. And I have eight or nine references who can attest to that. n° Names and identifying details have been changed. Every Friday we bring you some of the best and most controversial pieces from the Hooksexup archives. 13 CommentsJM commented on 09/13 non commented on 09/14 w.k commented on 09/16 NNYA commented on 09/17 SB commented on 09/20 mt commented on 09/24 ja commented on 10/16 MAD commented on 10/16 SG commented on 10/16 NN commented on 10/18 pp commented on 10/18 NN commented on 10/19
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