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    How does a porn star become an indie-film darling? Sasha Grey, with diminutive features and a melancholy expression, never looked like a typical porn star, but watching her 2006 debut film, Fashionistas Safado: The Challenge, you'd be hard-pressed to pick her out as a future mainstream star. (Her co-stars might've noticed something different; the eighteen-year-old Grey reportedly shocked porn veteran Rocco Siffredi by asking him to punch her in the stomach during fellatio.) But Grey's persona grew as the mainstream press noticed her penchant for discussing Godard instead of blowjobs in interviews. She was a deliberately highbrow anomaly in a genre not noted for elevated brows; she had even debated between Anna Karina and Sasha Grey when selecting her nom de porn, the former a reference to director Jean-Luc Godard’s ex-wife, the latter to Oscar Wilde’s The Picture of Dorian Gray. Her mainstreaming continued with an American Apparel modeling stint and an appearance on The Tyra Banks Show.

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    Now she's starring in Steven Soderbergh's The Girlfriend Experience, an exploration of five days in the life of an expensive Manhattan call girl. Grey's character offers her clients not only sex, but an entire relationship the titular experience. Grey delivers a candid portrait of a prostitute wrestling with the ambiguities of her profession, with economic and emotional collapses hovering on the horizon. Hooksexup spoke with Grey about working with the Academy Award-winning Soderbergh, what her female fans make of her extreme depictions of sex, and what she plans to do next. — Michael Estrin

    How did Steven Soderbergh approach you?
    I got a MySpace message from Brian Koppelman, one of the writers. But since it was through MySpace, I didn’t think it was real. Brian wrote me a note saying that Steven Soderbergh would call me, and I was like, "Yeah, right." But a few days later I had a voicemail from Steven, which was a total surprise. A few days after that, we were having lunch and talking about the project. I think they had heard of me because of the Los Angeles Magazine story about me a few years ago.

    What was it like to work with Soderbergh? How did he compare to other directors you’ve worked with in the past?
    Very few people in porn can actually direct. I mean no disrespect, but in porn, if you can white-balance a camera, you can be a director, which is why the industry is so oversaturated with awful content.

    Very few people in porn can actually direct.

    Steven was amazing because he was so focused. He knows what he wants. That kind of made me feel lazy in a way. His process is so intense. You watch him do what he does and prepare, and you don’t feel like you work hard enough. Sometimes we did four locations in a single day. We had a very small crew. But with a small crew and a camera, Steven can do anything.

    What did you think about the night before filming started?
    I was incredibly nervous. We didn’t get a lot of information on the film, so I think I was nervous because I just didn’t know what it would be like. Steven wanted this organic, natural performance for the film. And that was a bit of a struggle for me, to let that be part of the process.

    What was it like for you to do so much improv work?
    I took acting lessons from [the ages of] twelve to eighteen, so it was hard for me to abandon some of those processes as an actor and to strip it down to something more raw. You know what you need to do in the scene, but you don’t have the lines to get you there, so you need to sort of figure it out. I got an outline. But there would generally be changes everyday because Steven wanted the film to be very real and in the moment. We would get to the set, pick up a newspaper, and talk about what was really going on in the world at that moment. A lot of that made it into the film.

    Commentarium (12 Comments)

    May 06 09 - 12:49pm
    JMH

    The thing I don't like about her is that she seems overly self-satisfied, and just not very nice.

    May 07 09 - 2:36pm
    anonymous

    What the fuck is so glorious about being a porn "star"? It's like talking about the "miracle" of birth.

    May 07 09 - 11:02pm
    slc

    Don't know if she's mean-spirited or anything, DO know that reading Hunter Thompson ain't like reading the Bible in the original Aramaic. I mean, jeez, did anyone feel real challenged by, say, 'Hell's Angels'? I know, at least some times, attractive people claim that people automatically think they're less-than-intelligent; well, here's the flip: for some attractive people, the bar for 'ooh, she's intellectual' is so low you can step over it. I'm not a fan of Ms. Grey's just because she's like about a million other young porn stars: stares at the camera, a whole line of phony-baloney patter, that spit-sucking sound that drives me up the wall, the drooping eyelids meant to imply passion but always making me think of Get Shorty's Chili Palmer saying, what are you telling me, you're sleepy, you need a nap?.... Yawn. Gonzo WAS gonzo, at least originally, because it was (more or less) real people, not 'porn stars' who exhibited all the above behaviors, getting it on. Now it's more of the same. Don't know if I'll see this movie, maybe on cable. DO know, based on about 2 minutes of Redtube, I ain't renting none'a Sasha's porn. Is she good enough to make it with her pants on? I forget, did Sofia Coppola ever get better after Godfather 3?

    May 11 09 - 8:46pm
    gmd

    Sometimes I don't like knowing too much about actors and actresses before I see a movie. It brings too much baggage and I can't help thinking about their personal life makes me view the film less objectively. I watched GFE on Amazon VOD, it was good.

    May 19 09 - 4:50pm
    JCB

    I don't get why she is the "smart porn star." She sounds like an angsty 15-year-old high school girl name dropping Sartre and Hunter S. Thompson. The bar must not be too high in that industry.

    Jun 01 09 - 5:48pm
    S.S

    I totally agree with you; there is a very unappealing detached quality I don't like. Also it seems like she's pulling intellectual rank when she mentions how it's "sad" that some other porn star wasn't familiar with a Hunter S. Thompson. It's so condescending. It seems like she's trying very hard to be smart and "edgy" but she just comes across as mean spirited and grandiose.

    Jun 03 09 - 11:54am
    Noah Lieske

    I'd rather not know anything about her. Why would I be interested in some "smart porn star"? Noah Lieske

    Jun 06 09 - 2:11pm
    Tricia Lee

    Apparently the author did not watch Sasha's Grey's interview with Tyra Banks; the intent was not to "mainstream" her, but to point out her wicked ways in an effort to reform her. That inaccuracy at the beginning of the article invalidates the entire piece.

    Jun 22 09 - 9:49am
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    Jul 20 09 - 8:47am
    tracey

    Ive bn in her shoes but im a psychologist now.Sahas "whoreporn" i found very disturbing,had to turn off-i felt embarrassed for her.how will she feel when shes 50& if she has chidren?.Her eyes are so disassociated,dead,damaged...When girls are abused- often some memory's are suppressed-a shock reaction. Alot of girls act out their abuse,trying to exert some control over their demons ,trying to prove their not victims anymore.They become highly sexualised engaging in risk taking behavior,trying to do something extremer than the initial abuse to bury the old abuse i.e gangbangs, been very hard& sexually aggressive-become abuser themselves,trying to exert control,block out their conscious or unconscious past victimization.Lets face it if she wasnt so beautiful,if she was unattractive and did what she does,men would say her "whorepornos" are self-abusive& desperate.a sad society it is.hpefully she gets some healing people around her.good on steven.s for helping her.

    Dec 23 10 - 2:45am
    drew

    i feel sorry for her. she is so obviously trying to bury demons. id think she was a bitch if i didnt know shes hurting hard.

    May 01 11 - 6:20am
    MKSTEEL

    I personally don't like her, she acts better than the industry that created her. And in truth petite burnettes like her are a dime a dozen in the porn industry. Now that she's 'retired' from the industry lets's see how long it is before her mainstream buzz fades, and she comes crawling back to the industry, GO SCREW YOURSELF SASHA, YOU HIGHBROW BITCH!!!

    PS: This girl CANNOT act, I watched 'The Girlfriend Experienece' she cannot play a character only herself, so essentially she can't act he way out of a paper bag LOL!!!

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