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Commentarium (74 Comments)

Feb 26 11 - 12:04am
jo

15, in the basement of my boyfriend's house while his parents were sleeping

Feb 26 11 - 1:09am
latebloomer

21, my junior year of college, with a fellow math major

Feb 26 11 - 2:35am
wutmynamiz

Voluntarily or Involuntarily?

Feb 26 11 - 9:39am
ha

gotta love fried chicken man

Feb 26 11 - 12:21pm
devo

I'm 19, college sophomore, hopefully this weekend!

Feb 26 11 - 12:38pm
KT

good luck?

Feb 26 11 - 3:07pm
good luck!!

I lost my virginity last weekend. (:

Feb 26 11 - 3:27pm
girlJ

I can haz "17, Seattle", please?

Feb 26 11 - 9:18pm
oo

24, about 2 months ago.
We were falling in love, then he decided he didn't want to be "tied down" right now, and acted like a douche two weeks later. I don't think he was lying; I think he was legitimately having emotional issues. It still really hurt though. He also had ej.

Feb 26 11 - 10:33pm
Franny

16 in a graveyard of all places!

Mar 01 11 - 7:07am
Catface

Same thing but read mine...its funny

Feb 27 11 - 1:09am
Chilled

Almost lost it on a trampoline, but the wind chill was a bit too low. Managed to lose it shortly thereafter, indoors, in love. I was 19, she was 21.

Feb 27 11 - 3:47am
KT

19, summer after freshman year. It was with a man who I am still very much in love with.

Feb 27 11 - 1:14pm
VenusDePsycho

20, my dorm room, my roommate came in right after we finished... :)

Feb 27 11 - 5:41pm
circumstances

I was 15 - she was too. we were showering together. we were in love.

Feb 27 11 - 6:30pm
wondering.

19, campus wide party. not necessarily a regret, just a thought about what it'd b like if i had actually liked the guy.

Mar 01 11 - 8:54am
jl

Me too.

Feb 27 11 - 9:02pm
JAC

19, San Angelo, TX, barracks dorm room, future ex-wife: the hottest, coolest woman I'd ever met.

Feb 27 11 - 11:57pm
SPDK

16, north of Copenhagen, Denmark. Had been going out with him for a week, and took the opportunity to go back to his place, while we were at a party at a nearby apartment. My call - wanted to get it over with. Went back to the pary afterwards, and told my best friend, who shared in my joy/relief

Feb 28 11 - 12:58am
waytoyoung

14. a birthday gift from my girl friend. her house. floor next to her mothers bed.

Feb 28 11 - 2:39am
Capt'n

21, last month. She was my first real girlfriend. We went at it for over an hour and I still didn't finish. At least I have stamina ;)

Feb 28 11 - 9:25am
FEZZ

20, not yet!

Feb 28 11 - 12:14pm
rb

me 16 her 31 my girlfriends mom.
it was awesome.

Feb 28 11 - 12:15pm
rb

actually she was 40 sorry

Mar 01 11 - 12:44pm
logic police

obviously a false story. you realized that if your girlfriend was 16 like you were, then her mom would have had her when she was 15. also, how do you mistake 40 for 31?

Mar 01 11 - 2:52pm
justice patrol

Furthermore, that qualifies in any state as statutory rape. This isn't a forum for victims of sexual crime. What you say can and will be used against you. Every word you write has consequences.

Mar 02 11 - 8:39pm
doesnt matter

whoever the hell you might be, I'd tell you to f*ck off now. Unless registered members can see more about a poster than you, and unless you happen to be an admin or otherwise can see IPs, then you DON'T know details, like for example, if he lives in the states or not. If he doesn't than you probably don't know jack shit about the laws in his country, which might not even be the country the guy lost his virginity. In my country the minimum age for sex, given consent, is 14. Enough said from me.

Mar 02 11 - 8:39pm
doesnt matter

just to clarify, the above is a reply to "justice patrol" ..

Mar 04 11 - 3:09pm
anger cop

Woah now, calm down there buddy. Justice patrol is making a good point. Blame rb for his fake story.

Feb 28 11 - 8:10pm
Kara

13, on my boyfriend's neighbor's cabin porch.

Feb 28 11 - 10:46pm
Geoffrey

At age 19 (in Alexandria, Virginia), late into the evening of the nation's bicentennial, with a woman a few years old than I, who at the time I barely knew within my circle of friends: for the next five days with her I caught up for a lot of lost time...

Feb 28 11 - 11:56pm
tc

age 19 (this past january), with my boyfriend of now 6 months. it wasn't perfect, but it was special.

Mar 01 11 - 12:00am
Alexandra

16, on a rock in the woods.

Mar 01 11 - 12:09am
Adios, Amigo

19, to my best friend of 5 years. He left early the next morning and we never hung out again.

Mar 01 11 - 12:20am
cheery.charm

17, to my lovely boyfriend, on my bed in my room. We had been dating for 6 months at the time and we had been planning it for a while. It didn't happen exactly the way we expected (in accordance to location and whatnot) but it was still quite lovely. We're still together 2 years later.

Mar 01 11 - 12:33am
dj

Last month in my bedroom. I'm 25. Judge me if you want, I don't care. I was seduced by an amazing guy and it was so damn good. And now, a whole month later, I know the difference between "having sex" and "making love". Be jealous.

Mar 01 11 - 12:56am
Uncool

16 at the time, he was 17. Both naked, and not planning to have sex, just make out etc. But it slipped in.
High point? Him whispering to me, 'Is it in? Are we having sex?'

Apr 01 11 - 12:44pm
KRR

sometimes i wish i could go back to being avirgin, the nervous excitement and disbelief that i was actually having sex was something very fun for me.

Mar 01 11 - 12:56am
Ale - Alejandro

19. Still not looking forward to it.

Mar 07 11 - 5:17pm
Anima

i appreciate the way you think

Mar 01 11 - 1:05am
Jonny

16, with a really close friend of mine. We'd grown super close over the summer and ended up doing it on my couch while my mom was at work. The whole experience was disastrous, but honestly, it was special. I lasted probably about 20 seconds, no condom. We had to rush over to PP for plan b after freaking out for about an hour. After that was all done, I thought it was over, butI forgot how clever my mom was. Never really knew how she figured it out, but she knew. I was grounded for about a month. Me and the girl started going out about a month later. We fell in love, and were together for a long while, but eventually we fell apart and we no longer talk to each other. I learned a lot from my experiences with her, mostly that it's hard to have a solid relationship that was founded primarily on sex. I've had experiences with other women since then, but she was by far the most meaningful. I think of her often.

Mar 01 11 - 1:11am
kay

19, he was 21. i loved him, he cheated on me and broke my heart, possibly forever. three years later, i'm in love with someone else, but still haunted. be careful.

Mar 03 11 - 1:40am
eh

Unsolicited advice: treat it like a scar. It is not going anywhere, but you can be happy and trusting and in love nonetheless.

Mar 01 11 - 1:44am
Ers

20. My boyfriend's couch. The Schwarzenegger film "The 6th Day" was playing. The movie was terrible. We were worse.

Mar 01 11 - 3:07am
kgibs

:)

Mar 03 11 - 6:56pm
SC

Ers- you sound awesome.

Mar 01 11 - 3:49am
j

i just want to comment on the photo project critically if i may. idea's ok, execution is boring, and this websites repetitiveness makes it even more so. that being said, 18 during a huge coming of age abroad.

Mar 01 11 - 6:13am
Aponcie

16, in my mom's minivan, in the parking lot of my middle school, the day before I was supposed to go on birth control. Terrible story, but we're still pathetically in love.

Mar 01 11 - 2:13pm
KR

Intriguing: 16 in middle school? I can only figure out your mom worked there and you were waiting on her.

Mar 01 11 - 7:05am
Catface

14, cemetery, only place in town that no one ever was...except for that day. Mid thrust I went to whip my hair out of my face and when I did I looked over and saw an old man on a scooter at a grave. He somehow didn't notice us but scared the hell out of both of us. I figured it would be someone who would know my grandmother and she was embarrassed as hell and hid her face behind me after we put our pants back on. All he did was rode by smiled and waved and as far as we know he had no idea...we laughed our asses off

Mar 01 11 - 7:50am
MwLs

15, Leeds Uk. In a tent in my garden just down the street from a bonfire party my parents and all my neighbours were attending. I was deeply in love with the guy (we'd been 'dating' in that early-teenage sort of way for over a year) but it didn't work out. We stopped talking for a couple of years then turned up at the same college. Five years later we got 'back' together and have been stupidly happy together ever since.

Mar 01 11 - 9:37am
DarkKnight

20, Second year in college.
It wasn't her first time. Didn't know enough, she didn't tell me how, what, when. She was in pain. It ended before it started.
It forced me to master the ART.

Mar 01 11 - 10:46am
midnightwanderer

16, on his couch after the races while his dad was in bed...i was nervous so it wasnt that great

Mar 01 11 - 10:59am
TexasLost

18, Central Texas, in the front seat of a 1966 Bel Air which was big enough for an orgy. I wasn't sure then that she was a virgin, but I know now she wasn't. Makes me sad. I wanted that double-virgin experience. I was ignorant as could be (this was my first time to cum). There was an ocean of jizz all over the clear vinyl seat cover. I didn't know what it was, but it was awesome. Classic couple teens with nothing else to do in a small town but have sex.

Mar 01 11 - 12:30pm
zip

19, drunk, depauw university, in my best friends bed while she was down at the party. the movie "the princess bride" was playing on repeat in the background. first time for us both, but he dumped me 2 weeks later because i didn't want to do it again. it was so awful that i haven't been able to watch the movie since then, and that was 5 years ago.

Mar 01 11 - 2:45pm
Stargirl

The stories are ok, but the pictures are fantastic.

Mar 01 11 - 2:47pm
PK89

21, in college, with a girl that I hardly knew. what I did know was that it was the right time and she was the right one to lose it to.

Mar 04 11 - 2:54pm
That girl

I love you. :)

Mar 01 11 - 5:17pm
x

14, with a guy i didn't care for that pressured me.
now i'm sleeping with someone i love and i don't care.

Mar 01 11 - 5:42pm
Morgs

15, in his basement with a shit ton of rose petals on the bed and candles on the floor

Mar 02 11 - 11:57pm
SquidINK

20, decided I was ready to have sex, my room mate invited some cute losers. One guy was impressed by my ability to quote Grandma's Boy and my love for MGS and TOOL, grabbed my tits, and the rest is history.

Mar 05 11 - 12:06am
RubyxCube

16, in my now ex-boyfriend's bed right after our Social diploma. He wanted to wait to make it special for me (he wasn't a virgin) but we got into it and he realized that technically we could do it right then. He asked me a couple of times and we had sex. Hurt like all hell for the first little bit.

Mar 06 11 - 5:47pm
Shrimp

Um, never. Not as of yet, anyway (22). Waitin' 'til I get married, or, well, never.

Mar 06 11 - 5:51pm
ML

Me 15, him 19, boyfriend's mom's house. He said "are you waiting for me to say I love you before you have sex with me?" I wasn't old enough to know that wasn't the same thing as him telling me he loved me. Bad sex for the next five years, mediocre sex for the next five, beautiful for the last five. He's somewhere in New Jersey in rehab.

Mar 07 11 - 5:17pm
Holy Cow

14, my Girlfriend the same age, she was clinging all over me, even though it only lasted around 7 minutes. She loved it, from my view point, it was a odd feeling. But I'm rly glad that I used protection ^^ You never know...

Mar 10 11 - 12:28am
KU

on my 20th birthday. with my boyfriend of a year. he took me to a nice hotel, we had a nice time together, as well as did it on every surface of the hotel including the jacuzzi tub. Then ate dominoes pizza.

Apr 01 11 - 12:35pm
KRR

15, with my first boyfriend of a year,asked my siter to leave the house for a bit, was too nervouse to even take my shirt off. We played Halo after. I don't regret it.

Apr 03 11 - 4:25pm
ouch

16, my bed with my boyfriend at the time on our 2 month anniversary. He said he loved me. He dumped me 3 weeks later.

Jul 25 11 - 1:30am
Andi

15, at his house. His mom walked in on us and she asked me what I wanted for lunch while he was still inside of me. She didn't care, thank god.

Sep 07 11 - 6:31am
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F1EvpK Sent the first post, but it wasn`t published. I am writing the second. It's me, the African touristtt

Dec 30 11 - 10:39pm
ladyleona

13, it was the end of the Summer. We were drunk in my parent's cabin.

Jan 17 12 - 9:25pm
Marie

It was Sept. 12th 2010 . I was 17 , he was 19 . I wasn't feeling to good but he was taking care of me . We were watching Disney movies . Snow White to be exact . & then something came over us and we both knew what we wanted . It was perfect . We're still together and I want to be with him for the rest of my life .

Mar 09 12 - 8:56pm
me here

at 31,to the first man I'd ever dated/fooled around with who I knew wasn't just looking to get in my pants. for a good part of the next 9 months I thought we'd end up married, but then I realized we weren't really right for each other.
four years later we're still friends who wish each other well, even though we're not in touch a lot. i haven't had sex with anyone since, and I think I'm about ready to lose my virginity again (very much looking forward to it actually), just as soon as I can find as worthy of a person.
what I wish I'd know in my twenties: that it really is okay to wait, if the right opportunity doesn't come along. having said that, none of my friends, not a sole other than my ex knows he's the only person I've ever slept with. funny how our culture stigmatizes waiting to have sex in a healthy, loving relationship. realistically, for some people that doesn't come along at age 19, or even age 29.

Jul 11 12 - 10:10pm
Moi

17, going on 18 in two months, female... still a virgin and proud. All of the guys I have dated have been assholes. I am so unbelievably happy that I didn't give any of them my virginity. Now, I am waiting for someone who appreciates me for my flaws, and weird quirks.