Cindy, 57

What's the best way to seduce a Jewish woman?
Be a total gentleman. Bring her flowers on the first date, open the door for her, including the car door. When she gets up from the table, pull her chair away. Compliment her; tell her how smart and beautiful she is. Give her only a kiss good night on the first date.

What's the best sex advice you've given to your son or daughter?
Save it for someone you really care about, and respect yourself.

My boyfriend really wants to have sex in a public place but I'm nervous. What are the best places to have sex, and what do we do if we get caught?
If you are nervous and uncomfortable, just say no! Don't be pressured into anything to get a guy. Have some self-respect! However, if you decide to do it, the beach is great, late at night. If you get caught, just say oops!

What's the biggest misconception about Jewish women in the bedroom?
That they are prudes. Jewish woman are very hot, love to experiment, and always please their man. But they also demand to be pleased, as well.

I'm twenty-five and really interested in this sexy older guy at my gym. He's about fifty. I want to ask him out, but I'm afraid he won't take me seriously. What's the best way to approach him without seeming like a silly little girl?
Are you kidding me? Any guy over the age of fifty will jump through hoops to go out with a younger woman! They live for that. That is their biggest fantasy as they get older. Trust me, he won't say no.

My mother keeps trying to fix me up with men she meets at random places, like the grocery store or the post office. At first I asked her to stop, but now I wonder if it might be a good idea. Do you think this is a good way to meet that special someone? What else could I try?
Any way you can meet someone is great. You never know where or when that special someone will appear. It can happen in the most unexpected situations and places.

There's this really cute guy at my synagogue and I want to ask him out, but I only see him at services. What's the best way to approach him there without being sacrilegious?
I don't think G-d would mind. After all, HE would be making the shidoch! Go for it. It would be very KOSHER!