Nicely written and as others have said, funny and provocative. Sometimes the articles on Hooksexup can be a bit high-schooly; other times a bit fey. You have managed to write about ass fucking (no less!) in a clever (but not too clever!) way. Congrats, man. Now to get my wife to do it. (Ass fucking and pegging...)
--jr
03/11 |
Hysterically funny AND insightful and just a wee bit twisted. Marvelous. Thank you. Classic Hooksexup.
--stj
03/09 |
Mother of God and all the saints in heaven, Leo!!! :) Your essay is the best piece of lit I've read in a long time! How refreshing! Every strand of my DNA coiled a little tighter with each word. Was the title of your essay paying homage to Toni Bentley’s book: “The Surrender – An Erotic Memoir” . If not, it would be quite a coincidence. If you haven’t read her book it’s worth every syllable. (I highly recommend it for anyone who loved Leo’s story). Anal sex has never been contemplated from a more philosophical, intellectual yet highly erotic place. (until your essay that is) :) The book is about love, pain and reaching transcendence through ass fucking. What could be more intriguing than that!? A word of advice to my fellow wannabe aficionados in the art of all things ass: take it slow! It’s such a worthy pursuit though! Thank you, Leo! Josephine
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03/07 |
Excellent essay!
--jd
03/07 |
Is this an age thing? I mean, isn't ass-fucking sort of just part of the regular package these days? I know I'd have a hard time dating a man who didn't or wouldn't deliver. And as for pegging (really subtle pseudonym for the gal, eh?), I can sort of take it or leave it--not much of a top. But what it does for my boyfriend makes me happy, so I'm happy to do it for him. And the commenter who needs to douche? You might want to see a doctor. Barring stomach problems, it's not that common for anything to be continually dripping out of your ass. Just sayin'.
--mpb
03/06 |
yeah, man, you are bi. my experience has been that it requires much more prep than pleasure. it may not require an enema, but if you have to stop due to unpleasantness....
--dwp
03/06 |
One sex columnist to another--well fucking done and well done fucking. There should be awards for this genre (and that one too).
--SOT6
03/06 |
You are an amazing writer, you know that?
--dfw
03/06 |
Great essay. Funny and intelligent and kind of hot too.
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03/06 |
Intelligent, well written, fascinating.
--she
03/06 |
I laughed so hard at the Father of the Bride reference! I too once cried at it, and was humiliated.
--EM
03/05 |
Really great writing in this piece. My compliments.
--dxb
03/05 |
I loved your story. It reminds me so much of my own and the first time I was ass-fucked. I trembled at the thought but my girlfriend had started slowly with me with rimming and fingering and so on until, like you, I was tipsy enough to let her have her way with me. I'm not ashamed to say I like it. A lot. It is now a part of our sex lives and I am still very much a hetero male who happens to like getting ass-fucked by his girlfriend.
--AL
03/05 |
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