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Houston neighbors pull back the curtains and expose each other’s lives.
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Almost everything you want.
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An intimate and provocative look at Siege's life, work and loves.
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Autumn Sonnichsen
A fashionable L.A. photo editor exploring all manner of hyper-sexual girls down south.
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The creator of Supercult.com poses his pretty posse.
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Smarter gaming.
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A California boy in L.A. capturing beach parties, sunsets and plenty of skin.

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Today in Hooksexup's film blog: Simon Pegg and Ricky Gervais slag each other. Plus, we review Ed Wood's Jail Bait.
The Modern Materialist by Various
Almost everything you want. Today: Get perfect abs.
61 Frames Per Second by John Constantine
Today in Hooksexup's videogame blog: Ghostbusters, Pikmin, and the homebrew Mario Paint composer with full release.
The Remote Island by Bryan Christian
Palin camp may get SNL time to respond to Fey sketches. Wahlberg camp still mum on their demands. Plus: Dexter, Brothers and Sisters and Gwen Ifill reacts to Queen Latifah.
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Your week ahead. /advice/
Rough Patch by Nicole Ankowski
This contraceptive device sickened thousands of women. I was one of them. /personal essays/
Dating Confessions by You
"Even though I date other people, I'm never really 'single' because I'm always hoping my ex will come back."
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Today in Hooksexup's dating blog: When women are bad in bed.
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"People are now leery of rendering shame of any kind," Mary Gaitskill once wrote in a Hooksexup essay. "But shame is a profoundly human experience, and we risk it every time we encounter a force bigger than ourselves."

Sex is complicated enough; who can blame us for wanting to ignore its unpleasurable kinks? Sexual shame is often debilitating, frequently ambiguous and always subjective. It's not easy to process, much less channel onto a page. But we think it's worthy of examination. Like a libidinal drill sergeant, sexual reticence, embarrassment and regret build our character, in and out of the bedroom.

For this issue, we asked some of our favorite authors and essayists several of whom are making their Hooksexup debut to write about a shameful sexual experience. In Grand Slam, Neil LaBute depicts one man's inability to reject a neighbor's advances. In Farmboy Riot, Alice Sebold examines how one woman's accumulated shame disconnects her sexuality from the physical realm. Benjamin Cavell examines the shame of a specific-yet-universal adolescent guy (yes, the "regular or large condoms?" conundrum is addressed). Neal Pollack remembers the night his sexual altruism went far beyond the scope of the usual pity fuck.

You might see yourself in some of these pieces; it might even hurt a little. But we assure you that ultimately it's a good kind of pain. — Tobin Levy



In this issue: 
Grand Slam by Neil LaBute
"This is not the kind of woman I want to be out with, but I figured food is food and so I said 'Fine, let's eat' and now I'm living to regret it."
/fiction/
Farmboy Riot by Alice Sebold
"No matter how much noise he made, she never came. Not in any of fourteen states they meandered through before they reached the Pacific."
/fiction/
The Big Slip by Benjamin Cavell
One night, when the condom disappeared, so did his self-image.
/personal essay/
Extreme Lengths by Austin Bunn
His parents didn't get him circumcised. So he tried to do it himself.
/personal essay/
Truth or Dare by Heidi Jon Schmidt
"The year Sean turned twelve, Santa Claus gave him a subscription to Playboy."
/fiction/
Strangers on a Train by Neal Pollack
A pity sex goes too far.
/personal essay/
The P Word by Tobin Levy
She never felt like one until she started working at Hooksexup.
/personal essay/
In The Tavern by Jay Kirk
An allegory.
/Quickie/
Stranger Than Friction by Kevin Keck
Creative self-love leads to a humiliating doctor's visit.
/personal essay/
Divine Intervention interview by Michael Martin
A nun speaks out on sex abuse in the Catholic Church.
/dispatches/
 

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