According to John DeVore, over at The Frisky, it is.
It is surprising to us that he actually opens his story with the line "Blow jobs are overrated," because we've never come across a man who didn't love them, or at least pretend to love them.... oh, sort-of like we've totally pretended to looooove so many of the lukewarm oral sex acts that have been performed on us! But we see it this way: if you're sleeping with someone you have no intention of being in a relationship with, while you might technically owe it to the rest of womankind to tell the guy what he could do better next time, there's really no point in putting out his fire.
But back to blow jobs: we'd like to think—and have been told—we are particularly skilled at such things, but we would imagine that to most men any wet mouth on your hard penis is a wet mouth on your hard penis which is, "like totally amazing," right? Right?
Can a bad blow job be equated to cold pizza (a blow job is a blow job is a blow job, sometimes they're just better one way than another) or should everyone in the world go back to Oral Sex 101?
To Devore, though, skill is irrelevant.
"Every woman I have dated has come to the table with her own trademarked methods: some of them the result of experience, some of them experiments to be tossed aside or added to their internal, carnal repertoire. It’s hilarious and utterly endearing. They’ve shown off double-fist techniques, road-tested tongue twirls, tried different rhythms. Some ignore the testicles, some are all about them. I knew a chick who sincerely loved to give head. Her choreography was a well-timed ballet of strokes, deep-throating, tickling, and unparalleled tongue acrobatics. You know that trashy trick when a woman ties a cherry stem into a knot with her mouth? This woman could eat a ball of paper and spit out an origami swan.
"I am not criticizing motives here. It is good, and it is right to want to please the person you’re hooking up with. I think men have become more aggressive about giving women head because we’re tired of not being able to satisfy you with penetrative sex. We want to get you off. Nothing is hotter in the known universe than being able to give a woman an eyeball-spinning orgasm. I’m not a jerk about receiving; as a pre-game trifle, it can be fun. But I keep returning to the idea that it is strangely impersonal. There’s not enough give and take, back and forth, and the sweaty exchange of human energies is the entire point, the fun of it all."
Call us old-fashioned, but we sort-of agree with DeVore. As we've told too many people after too many cocktails too many times "We'd I'd rather be fucked any day."
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