Suite101 is one of those websites that gets everyone to write for them for free and then tries to pay them for their large traffic contributions with royalties for miniscule ad sales. Fortunately, though, many of the writers rise above their position on the internet ladder and churn out excellent pieces.
One recent addition to the lineup is "How to Write A Sex Scene," and it's quite interesting...
Writer Nina Munteanu hits five keys points in her article and, curiously enough, they would all work as tips for having a better sex life:
Tie Scene to Emotion
Describe Indirectly
Savor the Lead In
Less Is More
Use Sensual Language
Be more emotionally invested in the sex itself, don't be so obvious about what you want so that it's more playful, savor the foreplay, don't over do it, and talk dirty if it sounds like it'll work. Yep, that pretty much covers it.
Read the full text of her points at Suite101. [We're having embedding problems, so make sure you right click and ask to open in a new tab/window.]
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