Virginia, 26

This guy I'm sleeping with grunts too much during sex — how can I tell him, kindly, to shut up?
That's terrible. It's always hard to say such a thing because he doesn't realize he's being annoying. Maybe find an excuse, like say, "The neighbors came to me and said we are being too noisy."

How can I seduce an Italian woman?
Approach her in a smart and funny way — and by not being too pushy, like asking her for her number right away. Make her understand that you like her by making her laugh.

My orgasms these days have been kind of weak. Any tips on how I can intensify them?
You should tell your partner what you like and have him do it. Something that works is stimulating the clit before having actual sex, so ask him to go down on you.

My boyfriend is very flirtatious with other women when we go out. It makes me so jealous even though he tells me he loves me. Should I be bothered by this?
No, don't say anything because jealousy in this case really doesn't work. It would show him that you are insecure about the relationship and that is not cool at all. I think if he is just looking at other girls — but he's faithful to you — then don't say anything. If there is a situation and he gives more attention to someone else than you, then yes, I would say something.

I feel I'm really boring with my hands when I make out and have sex with guys. Any tips on how I can get creative with them?
Preferably I like to scratch, not a lot but a little. Scratch on the back or a little spank. Recently this guy I slept with had my scratch marks and he was really proud of that. He was like, "I love it!"

What are some sexy words and phrases to whisper to a man that will make him melt and want to strip off my clothes?
I don't talk so much, but I make him understand that I'm having pleasure. And when I'm coming I say it, in a sexy way. When you say you are coming, I think it helps your partner to come, too.

I'm trying to be less vanilla and more edgy sexually these days. Any wild sexual experiences you recommend?
Trying new things in bed makes the relationship or even a date very alive, so maybe a good thing is to not do it in bed. Go in kitchens or on the floor. I did it in places other than the bedroom, like in the kitchen, on the beach, in the car, once in the bathroom, in the tub. That is a good one — showers are amazing.