Jester, 24

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What should you do if your date refuses to let you pay for the bill?
Avoid this situation altogether and go on dates where you don't have to spend money. You shouldn't pay for a woman to impress her and win her over.

I can't ever seem to get past a first date. What might I be doing wrong?
Don't act needy, don't interview her, don't supplicate and don't talk about your emotional problems.

How can I use body language to seduce my date?
As a man, you need to lean back. Most men are too eager to please their date. They lean in and act overly interested. This communicates desperation. As a woman, your body should move slowly. A lot of women move around, all jerky like nervous poodles. Your body language should be open, smooth and flowing.

What's the best way to ask someone about their sexual history?
Don't. People almost always lie when you ask them this question anyway. Just trust your intuition.

I'm ready to share my kinky sexual habits with my new partner, but I'm scared she'll be freaked out. Any advice?
You would be surprised at how much kinkier your woman is than you are. The best way to introduce any new kind of kinky sexual habits is to masturbate her. When she gets highly aroused, you can say any nasty thing you want to her, as long as you say it with complete confidence.

I've been seeing this guy online for a while. We want to have cybersex. Any tips for an enjoyable first time?
The trick is to write sensual. Involve all the senses and describe everything in rich detail. Men enjoy when you describe sight. Women enjoy emotions and sensations.