Katherin Scott, 50
www.KatherinScott.com
What are your thoughts about sex on the first date?
If you know for sure they are not "the one" and you're feeling horny, then go for it. But don't expect this to blossom into a meaningful relationship.
I've been dating two guys at the same time. Neither of them knows about the other. Is this ethical?
Until you have the conscious conversation about being exclusive, there is no need to be. Just don't call him Chuck when his name is Marty.
I just moved to a new city. How do I break into the dating scene?
Speed dating.
What's the best way to ask someone about their sexual history?
With your clothes on. And be specific.
What are some "don'ts" when it comes to setting up a seduction scene?
Don't be a copycat. Set the scene to showcase the two of you, not what you've seen on TV.
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Comments ( 7 )
"My red nails are slowly running over my tight abdominals." Are you fucking kidding me?!?!
"all jerky like nervous poodles"...? he sounds like a real charmer himself.
Jesus fucking christ!
The one time you have on somebody my age to give advice and you have *these* walking boneyards?
Here's some advice:
1) It doesn't matter how many times you date or who you've dated before. Every time you start dating someone it's from Square One.
2) If you're in your mid-40's and still need advice? It. Ain't. Happening. Pray for reincarnation.
3) Everyone lies. Everyone. And you're going to get hurt. Deal with it or drink heavilly.
4) And the people who put out? They are insane.
Selah.
how come the women were the only ones who answered the "sex on the first date" question? I wanted to hear what the men had to say about that one.
I enjoyed the feedback far more than the column this week.
I've found that if I don't have sex on the first date I never get to the second date. It seems natural to me. We have sex because we hit it off well. If we hit it off well we see each other again. One of the advice people said these people live "shallow lives." I am quite confident I do not live a shallow life.
Also, I have to concur, that e-sex thing was going great with the painted nails until it stopped at the abs. Huh? Is their day job a personal trainer?
Since I am 60 and a San Diegan, I thought coaches Katherin Scott and Patti Feinstein made the most sense for me. I have dated quite often and after two marriages and two divorces, I have finally met a great woman in an area bulging with attractive available women. That initial meeting was "Bam"--chemistry at work. But emotional and mental maturity must be part of it. She is very attractive, slim and blessed with great skin, hands and legs. Minimal makeup, poised, great posture and a sense of humor. A womanly voice, not the little girl voice so many women seem to hold on to. How singles can rave about online dating is beyond me; the first five minutes are so crucial to any further relationship. Woman have told me that they know within a few minutes whether a man will ever see them naked. Is this not true? I can pass for a healthy 50 as I am slim, well built, and have been told I resemble a cross between Michael Douglas and Robin Williams. I am a non smoker, drink little and use no meds or street drugs. Thanks for the column.
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