Jimmy, 21
How has becoming a yoga teacher affected your sex life?
Being a yoga teacher has made me way less socially awkward and more confident. Having to get up in front of a group of people and lead them through a yoga practice is difficult; you're responsible for everybody in there. I'd say I'm also definitely more in touch with my body.
What is the best yoga position to use during sex?
Yoganidrasana.
Do you value flexibility in a sex partner?
I make a point of not sleeping with anyone who doesn't practice some sort of body discipline. The more awareness you have in your body, the better you'll be in the sack.
What does the kind of yoga you teach say about your sexual preferences?
My classes are a full-body experience that challenges the body, mind, and spirit. I teach a vigorous Vinyasa-based class with a really wide vocabulary of asanas. Anyone who has ever taken a class of mine has can tell you that you'll probably end up with your legs behind your head.
My recent ex owes me 500 dollars. Should I try and get it back from her or leave it alone?
Sorry, baby, that money is as good as gone.
I have a crush on my roommate. Do I go for it or move out first and then go for it?
As someone who slept with his roommate in college, I can tell you with certainty that this is a recipe for disaster. Unless you know that they're feeling the same way you do, I'd say hold out until you aren't living together.
My boyfriend is on the smaller side and I really get off on penetration. I have a fairly large dildo I like to use on my own, and I think if he used it on me, I'd be satisfied. How can I explain all of that to him?
Introduce the idea of using toys in the bedroom to gauge his response. If all goes well, you might not have to ever sit him down for "small talk."
The girl I just started dating has a way higher sex drive than I do, but since I'm a guy I feel like it's my obligation to keep up. How can I slow her down without embarrassing either of us?
Sex drive isn't something that changes overnight. If anything, try investigating the things that turn you on to increase your sexual appetite. See if you can't kick it up a notch. You'll both be happier for it. It’s very rare to hear people complaining about being over-sexed.
I'm a girl who's had a lot of drunk make-outs with other drunk girls, and now I'm thinking I'd like to hook up with a girl sober. I've made a few attempts, but I felt really awkward. Any tips?
It sounds to me like you're getting the Hooksexups from taking liquid courage out of the equation. Instead of trying to pick up girls at a straight bar, try taking a trip to a lesbian bar. You'll find more fish in a smaller pond. At least there you'll find people on the same page as you are. If all goes well, you can find someone to make sober plans with.
Commentarium (61 Comments)
Those hairy pits... a little chimpish, no?
Or you could try the shaved bald pedophile approach?
oh man, for totes dude, I love the razor burn my girls got all over her gennys.
What do shaved armpits have to do with pedophilia?
I trust you'll figure this out on your own...
So by Jr's logic... Women who prefer a shaved face are now pedophiles too?
"shaved bald pedophile approach" was not referring to armpits...
So why would you have even brought it up?
Because it seems some cultures are a bit creepy in the ways they pressure women to look like little girls. Shaved/tweezed/lasered eyebrows, armpits, legs, genitalia, etc. Either way, the real point is that basically we are all a bunch of self worshiping chimps. People need to get over it...
The body shape of a child differs greatly from that of a shaved woman.
That's pretty obvious...unless you're being told to dress up in a high school cheerleader's uniform as a turn-on.
please shut up. you are reaching so, so far
You shut up. If you don't like what I wrote, don't keep reading it.
no you shutup!
I know you are but what am I?!
jr's dedication to the body hair debate is unmatched.
Hey now, hairy is just fine with me...but I do draw the line if you start making dreads with your pubes. :)
JR sucks! I know him personally and hes an asshole and he owes me money! FUCK YOU JR!
wow kayla is a dream, and so insightful. is she real?
She seems not that insightful to me (but she's 22, so that's to be expected). She probably is for real.
yeah no shit dude
Anna just made me throw up in my mouth. Buy a razor granola girl, it's not the middle ages any longer.
Hey, You're right! It's not the middle ages: Maybe you could get on board with modern man and not hate on a woman's natural form. Or! Maybe your should shave your man pits too? By the way, women had hairy armpits way before hippies ever existed. Anna is pretty hot. Your loss.
HAIR makes you throw up in your mouth? You've got a weak stomach, friend. Nothing to brag about.
I couldn't agree with jr more. Everyone should have the same opinion as us! Thats thinking the modern way!
Unclipped dirty fingernails and are also part of the 'natural form'. That doesn't mean I want to see them or that they're automatically attractive.
What a pathetic false equivalency... Bad hygiene has nothing to do with this: You can have long hair or long nails without filth. Try again...
Yeah, jr, I feel you. The first thought I had was, "such a pretty girl, except for those armpits." And then my next thought was, "man, what a product of the culture I am that I let a little hair throw me off so much." It's just kind of sad, the whole, waxing/shaving fixation our culture has, and entirely a construct.
Best yoga position for sex? Easily: A modified Virasana (for the man) while the woman is on her back. If your knees are flexible enough, you'll have amazing penetration + both of your hands free for a multitude of things.
First, both women are very attractive. Count me in. Any time with either one. And the hair doesn't give me pause for even a second. But they both have serious gaps in the same areas - understanding mens' relationships to their penis size and the pharmacology of anti-depressants vs. sex drive.
As a man who's size is a bit above average and who's well acquainted enough with the work of Dr. Grafenberg to find the right angle almost every time, I should have no reason to feel insecure. But no man is happy to see a woman take out an artificial phallus that's bigger than his own. If he acts like it's no big deal... he's acting. That's because you're telling him it's no big deal... referring to his organ. And there's the practical matter of the stretching effect. Yes, the ''experts'' tell us the elasticity of the vagina prevents it from stretching out to the point that's it's too loose to satisfy a man of any penis size. They lie. If this was the truth, no woman would feel the need for a dildo larger than her partner's own penis.
If you must use the dildo, do it when you're alone and never let him see it. If you're not sufficiently satisfied by his penis, find a man who's big enough for you and cut the smaller guy loose (no pun...) to find a woman tight enough to appreciate him.
There are antidepressants that don't interfere with libido. They're just different for different people, and the man in question may just have to try different Rxs 'til he hits the right one for him. Or he may have to switch Drs if his current one thinks it's too much trouble to try to keep his patient both happy, and happy.
"count me in"
I'm sure they are swooning for you as a man who's size is a bit above average.
I doubt it's the size they'll be swooning from, it's the promise of a G-spot orgasm, assuming what he says is true. A huge damn cock does not guarantee great sex.
@kl You know, kl, you come across as just a tad, no--scratch that, hugely insecure about penis size and way too focused on penetrative sex. Personally, I think it's pretty hot when my wife pulls out a dildo, either bigger or smaller than me, to play with during sex.
You're making false assumptions, my friend. A larger dildo can feel good, because it puts more pressure on Hooksexup endings. But the vagina is still a muscle that contracts and relaxes, so after being stretched by a large object it will still go back to the size of a small hole that can satisfy a smaller penis.
@kl . . .there's a big difference between "I myself am made nervous by women who enjoy dildos bigger than my cock" and "All men are . . .". I totally believe that you don't like playing with certain toys, and that's cool. Whatever works for you and your lady pals. But I know an awful lot of kinky men & women (myself and my boyfriend included) who like edgeplay, BDSM, and other kinds of play that verge into the uncomfortable or extreme. I myself have never experienced fisting (I find the idea intriguing, but just can't get past the pain), but I know enough men and women who enjoy it that it seems unlikely they're all lying to each other to be polite. I do have a really large dildo that I rarely use, but once or twice my boyfriend has enjoyed making me really, really uncomfortable with it. He knows that he's plenty big and that it would be ridiculous for him to be as big as that toy--but he likes watching me squirm. See how I'm not claiming that all men like this kind of play? Just my boyfriend and a few kinky friends I talk to about sex. Just sayin'.
Hairy girl pits? No problem here.
The hairy pit chick is just trying to prove a point. Why else would her pits be featured so prominently in the picture. Listen, we get it...you're so unique and different. Such an independent thinker and you don't conform to anyones ideas of what beauty should be. Whatever. She can do what she wants, but any man that says he finds that look attractive is lying.
Fact: hairy armpits on a woman are not attractive.
Damn, you're totally right! If all of us guys say we are attracted to something that you're not, we MUST be lying. I guess you were intimidated enough by this woman's picture that you had to read her mind to find out exactly what her real motivations are. Bravo, sir!
earlier in this thread you asserted that anyone who prefers a shaved woman has pedophile-like tendencies. before complaining about the way someone else makes blanket statements you should take your own advice.
Stating that people might have a problem if they prefer women who look like prepubescent girls is a little different than acting like you can read people's minds. Nice try though...
I would like to add that I am an enormous douchebag
I would like to add that trolls can use any signature they like, especially because they are cowards living in their mom's basement.
I would also like to add that closeted pedophiles might feel threatened by my writing...maybe like the troll before the above comment.
OK, it's been a long day on this thread and I think we've established 3 things here:
1) Some cultures appreciate women with hairy armpits.
2) The US is not one of those cultures.
3) jr is almost certainly Anna's boyfriend.
Right on #1 and #2, not on #3. I'm proud to be an American that doesn't fit into #2.
Another Summary,
1.) I am in fact Anna's boyfriend
2.) She did not choose the photo, the editors did, they are obviously making a point
3.) This thread is totally pointless because she in fact has Alopecia, and wears stick on arm pit hair and a merkin.
Awesome. Please give her arm pit toupe to to Donald Trump. He needs something a little more authentic looking!
Why is no one mentioning how ludicrously hot Jimmy is?? Wow.
Everyone is too tangled up in Anna's armpit hair to notice. :)
I wonder if there are gnomes living in Anna's arm bushes......
I scrolled down to the comments because I knew there would be comments on Anna's armpits. I was not disappointed.
Armpit hair is not a big deal. It is a useful opportunity to look at your cultural conditioning if you are that repulsed. Some instincts are learned.
Also, my partner had a baby 7 weeks ago. We waited a month plus before vaginal sex again, and I can tell you the vagina contracts. The quantity of sex is down, but the quality is fantastic.
Is it me or is Jimmy sporting a huge bulge in the crotch area??
as someone who takes classes with him, I can tell you for a fact, yes. Yes he does.
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Kayla is the hottest woman ever to appear on Hooksexup. Period.
Libby your soooo CUTE & SEXXY, I have a FETISH for red hair & freckles.. YUM! xo
Too bad they only interviewed twenty-something yoga teachers. I'm sure the advice of some thirty and forty-something yoga teachers could have proved extremely enlightening and provided a broader perspective. It's also unfortunate that the editors apparently think we all want to only look at people that age. I, myself, am a hot lanky and limber forty-something vinyasa teacher and a bit disappointed in Hooksexup's narrow-mindedness...
I was in touch with male yoga teacher in the 40-50 range, but sadly he did not get back to me in time. As the daughter of a yoga teacher on the older side, I absolutely agree they've got a ton of insight to offer. Incidentally, my yoga-teaching mother also has a lot of armpit hair, but that's neither here nor there.
I'm attracted to hirsute Anna just because she's young and beautiful. She also seems really centered. I'm sure the photographer made her pose like that. If I was a photographer, there's no farking way I'm leaving before I get that shot. The fact that she's got hairy pits makes her different from other cookie cutter airheads. It makes me want to get to know her.
As a 50-something yoga teacher w/a 60-something yoga practicing partner, I find it very relationship enhancing to be with someone who is flexible in body and mind as well as self assured in their own body. And we both think it's hot that under those tights are some nice smooth shaved bodies!
For both gender pit and pubic hair is natural provided by nature with some minimum creative requirement beyond pesonal concepts and choice. That only human beings reckon their age in years also adds a signature of maturity of physical and intellectual growth with adolescent hair.There is nothing wrong to its appearance and one need not be feel hateful if one pssesses impartial receptivity and love of nature.