Anna, 23
How has becoming a yoga teacher affected your sex life?
Being a yoga teacher hasn’t changed it much. The fact that I practice yoga has made me pretty flexible, an educated breather, and very in my body most of the time. That has definitely helped me get into sex more. I find that because of all of these enhancing attributes that yoga has provided for me, I can really experience sex on a different level.
What is the best yoga position to use during sex?
I recently experienced a yoga position in sex that was pretty much a head stand. I don’t recommend it. The best yoga position to use during sex would have to be chair pose, utkatasana. He stands with knees bent, while she is mounted on top of him. It’s an exciting and different position. I usually call it the “coat hanger” rather than chair pose.
Do you value flexibility in a sex partner?
Honestly, I don’t find that my partners need to be that flexible because I compensate for them. I’m sure it would suck to have a stiffy (no pun intended), but I find that as a female who has male partners, the female does a lot of the gymnastics rather than the dude.
What does the kind of yoga you teach say about your sexual preferences?
I teach a varied yoga class. There are slow spiritual moments, fast flowing moments and sustained strengthening moments in my class. I think this says that my sexual preference is eclectic. I don’t appreciate a wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am. I like all of my “koshas” to be involved, which is to say, loosely, my physical, spiritual, mental and emotional bodies.
My recent ex owes me 500 dollars. Should I try and get it back from her or leave it alone?
Get that shit back! If the two of you ever want to be friends ever again you will need to settle all ties before severing them. I’m not sure how yoga comes into play with this question, but to bring peace into the world we need to practice peace, which doesn’t necessarily mean inaction. Go get that cash! Om Shanti.
I have a crush on my roommate. Do I go for it or move out first and then go for it?
As convenient as it is to have a crush on someone you live with, I think that keeping your love relations and your business relations separate is a good idea. For the sake of your other roommates and for potential issues in dealing with rent, dishes, or hair in the drain, I think moving out first would be better for everyone.
My boyfriend is on the smaller side and I really get off on penetration. I have a fairly large dildo I like to use on my own, and I think if he used it on me, I'd be satisfied. How can I explain all of that to him?
Explain to him that you want to expand your horizons and try kinkier stuff. Suggest his involvement in a different venue while you employ the giant dildo. Don’t mention his tiny dick — that’s not okay. Ask him to stimulate you in a different area while you use the toy. One thing about guys is, they love to watch you get off on your own, or at least take control of what you want. Go for it!
I'm a girl who's had a lot of drunk make-outs with other drunk girls, and now I'm thinking I'd like to hook up with a girl sober. I've made a few attempts, but I felt really awkward. Any tips?
When I flirt with girls, I basically flirt in the same way that I do with guys. Be yourself and remember to find moments for “accidental” touching, you know, knees bumping, shoulders rubbing, etc. Physical suggestion goes a long way.
The guy I've been dating is on anti-depressants and though they do wonders for his mood, he has a lot of trouble getting hard. We both put a lot of effort in, but when it doesn't work we both get frustrated with each other and it ruins the moment. How can we fix this?
Try some tantric shit. Maybe if you both withhold yourselves from each other, emotions will grow stronger and so will other things. The art of seduction and temptation is an amazing way to amp up the sex drive.
Commentarium (61 Comments)
Those hairy pits... a little chimpish, no?
Or you could try the shaved bald pedophile approach?
oh man, for totes dude, I love the razor burn my girls got all over her gennys.
What do shaved armpits have to do with pedophilia?
I trust you'll figure this out on your own...
So by Jr's logic... Women who prefer a shaved face are now pedophiles too?
"shaved bald pedophile approach" was not referring to armpits...
So why would you have even brought it up?
Because it seems some cultures are a bit creepy in the ways they pressure women to look like little girls. Shaved/tweezed/lasered eyebrows, armpits, legs, genitalia, etc. Either way, the real point is that basically we are all a bunch of self worshiping chimps. People need to get over it...
The body shape of a child differs greatly from that of a shaved woman.
That's pretty obvious...unless you're being told to dress up in a high school cheerleader's uniform as a turn-on.
please shut up. you are reaching so, so far
You shut up. If you don't like what I wrote, don't keep reading it.
no you shutup!
I know you are but what am I?!
jr's dedication to the body hair debate is unmatched.
Hey now, hairy is just fine with me...but I do draw the line if you start making dreads with your pubes. :)
JR sucks! I know him personally and hes an asshole and he owes me money! FUCK YOU JR!
wow kayla is a dream, and so insightful. is she real?
She seems not that insightful to me (but she's 22, so that's to be expected). She probably is for real.
yeah no shit dude
Anna just made me throw up in my mouth. Buy a razor granola girl, it's not the middle ages any longer.
Hey, You're right! It's not the middle ages: Maybe you could get on board with modern man and not hate on a woman's natural form. Or! Maybe your should shave your man pits too? By the way, women had hairy armpits way before hippies ever existed. Anna is pretty hot. Your loss.
HAIR makes you throw up in your mouth? You've got a weak stomach, friend. Nothing to brag about.
I couldn't agree with jr more. Everyone should have the same opinion as us! Thats thinking the modern way!
Unclipped dirty fingernails and are also part of the 'natural form'. That doesn't mean I want to see them or that they're automatically attractive.
What a pathetic false equivalency... Bad hygiene has nothing to do with this: You can have long hair or long nails without filth. Try again...
Yeah, jr, I feel you. The first thought I had was, "such a pretty girl, except for those armpits." And then my next thought was, "man, what a product of the culture I am that I let a little hair throw me off so much." It's just kind of sad, the whole, waxing/shaving fixation our culture has, and entirely a construct.
Best yoga position for sex? Easily: A modified Virasana (for the man) while the woman is on her back. If your knees are flexible enough, you'll have amazing penetration + both of your hands free for a multitude of things.
First, both women are very attractive. Count me in. Any time with either one. And the hair doesn't give me pause for even a second. But they both have serious gaps in the same areas - understanding mens' relationships to their penis size and the pharmacology of anti-depressants vs. sex drive.
As a man who's size is a bit above average and who's well acquainted enough with the work of Dr. Grafenberg to find the right angle almost every time, I should have no reason to feel insecure. But no man is happy to see a woman take out an artificial phallus that's bigger than his own. If he acts like it's no big deal... he's acting. That's because you're telling him it's no big deal... referring to his organ. And there's the practical matter of the stretching effect. Yes, the ''experts'' tell us the elasticity of the vagina prevents it from stretching out to the point that's it's too loose to satisfy a man of any penis size. They lie. If this was the truth, no woman would feel the need for a dildo larger than her partner's own penis.
If you must use the dildo, do it when you're alone and never let him see it. If you're not sufficiently satisfied by his penis, find a man who's big enough for you and cut the smaller guy loose (no pun...) to find a woman tight enough to appreciate him.
There are antidepressants that don't interfere with libido. They're just different for different people, and the man in question may just have to try different Rxs 'til he hits the right one for him. Or he may have to switch Drs if his current one thinks it's too much trouble to try to keep his patient both happy, and happy.
"count me in"
I'm sure they are swooning for you as a man who's size is a bit above average.
I doubt it's the size they'll be swooning from, it's the promise of a G-spot orgasm, assuming what he says is true. A huge damn cock does not guarantee great sex.
@kl You know, kl, you come across as just a tad, no--scratch that, hugely insecure about penis size and way too focused on penetrative sex. Personally, I think it's pretty hot when my wife pulls out a dildo, either bigger or smaller than me, to play with during sex.
You're making false assumptions, my friend. A larger dildo can feel good, because it puts more pressure on Hooksexup endings. But the vagina is still a muscle that contracts and relaxes, so after being stretched by a large object it will still go back to the size of a small hole that can satisfy a smaller penis.
@kl . . .there's a big difference between "I myself am made nervous by women who enjoy dildos bigger than my cock" and "All men are . . .". I totally believe that you don't like playing with certain toys, and that's cool. Whatever works for you and your lady pals. But I know an awful lot of kinky men & women (myself and my boyfriend included) who like edgeplay, BDSM, and other kinds of play that verge into the uncomfortable or extreme. I myself have never experienced fisting (I find the idea intriguing, but just can't get past the pain), but I know enough men and women who enjoy it that it seems unlikely they're all lying to each other to be polite. I do have a really large dildo that I rarely use, but once or twice my boyfriend has enjoyed making me really, really uncomfortable with it. He knows that he's plenty big and that it would be ridiculous for him to be as big as that toy--but he likes watching me squirm. See how I'm not claiming that all men like this kind of play? Just my boyfriend and a few kinky friends I talk to about sex. Just sayin'.
Hairy girl pits? No problem here.
The hairy pit chick is just trying to prove a point. Why else would her pits be featured so prominently in the picture. Listen, we get it...you're so unique and different. Such an independent thinker and you don't conform to anyones ideas of what beauty should be. Whatever. She can do what she wants, but any man that says he finds that look attractive is lying.
Fact: hairy armpits on a woman are not attractive.
Damn, you're totally right! If all of us guys say we are attracted to something that you're not, we MUST be lying. I guess you were intimidated enough by this woman's picture that you had to read her mind to find out exactly what her real motivations are. Bravo, sir!
earlier in this thread you asserted that anyone who prefers a shaved woman has pedophile-like tendencies. before complaining about the way someone else makes blanket statements you should take your own advice.
Stating that people might have a problem if they prefer women who look like prepubescent girls is a little different than acting like you can read people's minds. Nice try though...
I would like to add that I am an enormous douchebag
I would like to add that trolls can use any signature they like, especially because they are cowards living in their mom's basement.
I would also like to add that closeted pedophiles might feel threatened by my writing...maybe like the troll before the above comment.
OK, it's been a long day on this thread and I think we've established 3 things here:
1) Some cultures appreciate women with hairy armpits.
2) The US is not one of those cultures.
3) jr is almost certainly Anna's boyfriend.
Right on #1 and #2, not on #3. I'm proud to be an American that doesn't fit into #2.
Another Summary,
1.) I am in fact Anna's boyfriend
2.) She did not choose the photo, the editors did, they are obviously making a point
3.) This thread is totally pointless because she in fact has Alopecia, and wears stick on arm pit hair and a merkin.
Awesome. Please give her arm pit toupe to to Donald Trump. He needs something a little more authentic looking!
Why is no one mentioning how ludicrously hot Jimmy is?? Wow.
Everyone is too tangled up in Anna's armpit hair to notice. :)
I wonder if there are gnomes living in Anna's arm bushes......
I scrolled down to the comments because I knew there would be comments on Anna's armpits. I was not disappointed.
Armpit hair is not a big deal. It is a useful opportunity to look at your cultural conditioning if you are that repulsed. Some instincts are learned.
Also, my partner had a baby 7 weeks ago. We waited a month plus before vaginal sex again, and I can tell you the vagina contracts. The quantity of sex is down, but the quality is fantastic.
Is it me or is Jimmy sporting a huge bulge in the crotch area??
as someone who takes classes with him, I can tell you for a fact, yes. Yes he does.
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Kayla is the hottest woman ever to appear on Hooksexup. Period.
Libby your soooo CUTE & SEXXY, I have a FETISH for red hair & freckles.. YUM! xo
Too bad they only interviewed twenty-something yoga teachers. I'm sure the advice of some thirty and forty-something yoga teachers could have proved extremely enlightening and provided a broader perspective. It's also unfortunate that the editors apparently think we all want to only look at people that age. I, myself, am a hot lanky and limber forty-something vinyasa teacher and a bit disappointed in Hooksexup's narrow-mindedness...
I was in touch with male yoga teacher in the 40-50 range, but sadly he did not get back to me in time. As the daughter of a yoga teacher on the older side, I absolutely agree they've got a ton of insight to offer. Incidentally, my yoga-teaching mother also has a lot of armpit hair, but that's neither here nor there.
I'm attracted to hirsute Anna just because she's young and beautiful. She also seems really centered. I'm sure the photographer made her pose like that. If I was a photographer, there's no farking way I'm leaving before I get that shot. The fact that she's got hairy pits makes her different from other cookie cutter airheads. It makes me want to get to know her.
As a 50-something yoga teacher w/a 60-something yoga practicing partner, I find it very relationship enhancing to be with someone who is flexible in body and mind as well as self assured in their own body. And we both think it's hot that under those tights are some nice smooth shaved bodies!
For both gender pit and pubic hair is natural provided by nature with some minimum creative requirement beyond pesonal concepts and choice. That only human beings reckon their age in years also adds a signature of maturity of physical and intellectual growth with adolescent hair.There is nothing wrong to its appearance and one need not be feel hateful if one pssesses impartial receptivity and love of nature.