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Reader Feedback on "Final Fantasy"
Brilliant piece.
--SL
06/28 |
you've received some excellent feedback, so i'll add only a small item - just be real good at something. i found anal sex ok for a few times, but not really worth the extended prep time (and requisite super hard pecker). my wife has always enjoyed bj's (not just mouth fucking) and she is still innovating and improving 25+ years later.
--dwp
06/27 |
Based on the pudding skin depth of your article, I would suggest you spend less time fucking and more time writing. Maybe read Boris Groys' Art Power or Sylvie Lotringer's Perverting Perversions. Reading your piece reminded me of the girls in college who thought they were funny and interesting because they fucked stand-up comedians, which also engendered a sartorial change manifesting itself in the sudden appearance of eye wear (tortoise shell frames)when none was needed. The good news is that you sound hot. The bad news (or, in you case, maybe it's just more good news) is that the reason you probably find yourself with a dick in your mouth all the time is because guys just want you to shut the fuck up. But don't worry, that's par for the course, unless you're Jenny Hendrix, the rare example of someone who is both sexually radioactive and a pleasure to talk and listen to at the same time.
--CO
06/27 |
so once you have this one, does that leave you with no more fantasies? no more taboos? or are the rest just things you would never do? More I think this would just unleash a whole new realm for you, that maybe you aren't even ready to contemplate I always walk around in my sports bra, but I only buy sexy sports bras, cause not every boy likes lace, some like gortex.....
--CTS
06/26 |
"...I've warmly welcomed fingers and tongues into the fray...." Sorry, sweetie, if that's the case, then you're not a(n anal) virgin. Even as a straight dude I know that those digits count, and honestly, I think I speak from experience. I've never had a penis back there myself, but I *have* been on the receiving end (so to speak) of anal sex. (And I am sure there are some ass-hungry lesbians out there that would agree with me.) Maybe the brain is *the* sexual organ, and I'm wrong. But I do know that the tongue is an organ as well. Even if you haven't had the main player called in, you've still been in the game.
--CD
06/26 |
i've thought about it some more and i think you should totally do it now. who knows, you might shatter the preconception you have.
--mrme
06/26 |
Kate, it's your body, and you can make any access rules for it that you want. However, I'm going to recommend that when the time feels right, that you just go ahead and have the anal sex. There are only two good reasons (other than pregnancy or disease) to restrict particular kinds of sexual techniques. One is if you're after a guy who you think will respect you for remaining "pure" in some area of your body, but you know, it's kind of late for that, and I don't think you want to marry that kind of guy anyway. The other is if you're being non-exclusive, and your boyfriends all know it, but there's one guy who's your "favorite," and you tell him there's this certain move that you'll only do with him, which will make him feel more special. If you don't have anal sex before you get married, you're setting yourself up for finding the perfect guy who just isn't into anal, leaving you feeling like cheating on him in a few years because you didn't get that one special experience you wanted. Or you'll wind up hating anal and won't find out until you're with the guy who married you for it. So just do it. If you're worried that there will be no more firsts when you finally meet the man of your dreams, you can always manufacture "firsts" by adding parameters. For example, "I can honestly say I've never had sex while skydiving. Well, when jumping out of a helicopter that's painted, ummm, green. On a Wednesday. With a guy wearing a fake curly mustache."
--JCF
06/26 |
You want to not know if you're sexually compatible until you're married? What if you LOVE anal sex and he hates it or you hate it and he loves it? Yeah, let's not open that can of worms just because you could go a lifetime without every trying it even though you want to and he might want to, just because you can. Oh yeah, and that makes anal sex "sacred." Still, every irrational action needs some sort of equally insane justification. At least you're not the typical Cosmo-obsessed imbecile of a teenage girl who makes virginity into something it isn't. But making anal virginity into something it isn't, that's just retarded.
--rtrd
06/26 |
What I don't understand is the desire for contradiction? You can slap a tattoo on and air out all your sexual encounters (signs of bad girl behaviour as per the author) but it all returns for the desire to be a good girl. Girls who don't go all the way are good and those who do are bad. Women who have anal sex are no more virgins than those who practice vaginal penetration. It's all sex. Is it just 'cause you can't get pregnant that allows women who only have anal sex to maintain their virginity? In most cases the proper use of contaceptives prevents pregnancy, does that null the act? If someone sticks a tongue a finger or two up your anus, it has been penetrated. No dick required! You are not an anal virgin. The final fantasy is that you want to be some kind of virgin on your wedding night? Why this need for purity especially in this forum?
--ESC
06/25 |
Hm, I knew this chick was a wasp one paragraph in. This is exactly the sort of story a person without any actual problems, or really, depth, would write.
--RS
06/25 |
i think this is endearing, and funny ... a kinda sweet rumination on the difficulty of retaining some kind of innocence in a naughty naughty world. I wish you luck in keeping your hindquarters squeaky clean. Bar the doors.
--ted
06/25 |
i don't agree with the previous poster that this is "self-important". i, maybe partly because i am in the same demographic as the author, can relate to this. i think many of my friends would as well. it's interesting to see where other people draw the line of keeping something "special" for marriage when you want to have a life beforehand (and don't want to either marry at 20 or remain a virgin until you are in your thirties). it's a tricky line for a woman to be independent and yet, still entertain the notion that some sense of traditionalism isn't all bad. i'm not sure anal falls under that definition for me...but i want something to feel reserved and new for the person i can finally see marrying.
--rh
06/25 |
Yawn...such self important drivel.
--SAL
06/25 |
why is it that i can't escape stillepost for even a day? i'm just trying to catch up on my Hooksexup reading, gaddammit.
--FTL
06/25 |
it's interesting what different people's boundaries are. i dated a girl who's big holdout was giving blowjobs. but she had no problem with condomless sex. i tried anal once with an ex several years ago and it was kind of fun. we were in the right mood for the adventure and taboo. it was a bit messy but i didn't mind and we went and showered after. it felt good.
--bbd
06/25 |
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