What's the hottest sex move you've ever tried and why was it so great?
I'm really into giving head in public places. I don't know if that's a sex "move."
I'm cute, friendly and flirty and have lots of guy friends. Why am I still single?
Because you're cute, friendly and flirty! You're probably flirty to everybody so they think you're a slut, or you're too cute so you remind them of their little sister. I suffer from this problem myself because I am also cute, friendly and flirty. The friendliness is not girlfriendliness, you're a friend. You're flirty, so they get mixed signals and they don't know what to do.
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Has acrobatics benefited your sex drive?
Definitely. We're very flexible and my endurance is way up so I can go for awhile and go again and have multiples. And there's also the performance aspect of it. Sex can be a performance — you're performing for the other person. Whether you're performing oral sex or whether you're performing a fake orgasm, you're performing! So definitely a little practice makes perfect. And being more physically healthy makes you feel more attractive and you are more attractive and you feel like physically expressing yourself in other ways. I haven't been getting off lately when I have sex, and I'm so over fake orgasms. How do I let the guy know I'm enjoying it, even though I'm not coming?
You should definitely just let him know that you enjoy it and that you're not going to come because coming isn't really the main event. I really don't think it's what sex is for, especially for the woman. Maybe he expects it because you were coming before and now you're not and he may have his own issues with that. Moan more, but you don't have to fake it. I think a lot of women are on the same boat. If you're into it, you're into it.
How can a nice guy get laid?
Probably by being honest and straightforward about your desires. A nice guy who gets laid is really open about himself and people who he's attracted to and not trying to bullshit them into sleeping with him because he's nice, he's honest. And so he ends up taking girls home because they trust him and they don't feel like their naked pictures are going to end up on Facebook the next day. If he gets laid often it's through his casual approach and friendliness.
How can I turn on an acrobat while he or she's in midair?
If you want to physically turn her on and she's in a split, rub your nose all up in her crotch or something cute like that. To get her attention? You don't whistle or hoot and holler, "You're so hot!" A lot of douchebags from Jersey do that. You wait until she gets down and say, "That was so amazing, can you show me how to do that sometime?" And they'll say, "Oh, sure," and then it goes from there.
Michael "Dirt" Saab, 35
www.modern-gypsies.com
I'm cute, friendly and flirty and have lots of guy friends, why am I still single?
Maybe you're inadvertently sending the friend message. Try throwing yourself on the guy you like. Usually if you jump a man's bones and you're cute, friendly, and flirty to boot, he won't say no.
My guy can get really hot and raunchy on the phone, but when it comes to being physical in person, he's very timid. How can I get him to put his words into action?
Maybe he's shy? Try talking dirty to him while you're being intimate. Tell him what you like, what you want him to do. Once he sees you opening doors to some of the raunch you're trying to get out of him, he'll step it up.
What acrobatic positions can give us good ideas for a spicy sack session?
You could try doing some bendy sex. Sex while standing up takes a little coordination but when you get it, it's good. Try to change your perspective and be open to new things. Use your imagination. Anything non-conventional becomes a puzzle that can lead to exploration and fun.
My S.O. and I invited a couple over tonight so we can have a foursome. What are some good foursome positions to try out?
Try building a human pyramid while stimulating those erogenous zones.
How can a nice guy get laid?
From this nice guy's personal experience: be honest, be friendly, don't try too hard, and know when to get dirty.
How can I turn on an acrobat while he or she's in midair?
Yell out, "You are so hot!" If you stroke his ego you will surely land him in your lap and around your finger.
