I've just read a bunch of Hooksexup Confessions and there's a bit of a theme brewing...
What constitutes abuse?
The original confession was:
Which elicited these:
And this:
My first thought is that the original confessor sounds mildly pissed rather than devastated. "Little fucker" doesn't seem to connote super sad. To me at least.
But, there's no doubt that some people use silence as a weapon. It's passive aggressive bullshit to keep silent rather than engage in a conversation that one partner feels is necessary.
At least s/he could say something like "we've discussed this ad infinitum and I don't see any benefit of talking further on the subject" for example.
Better than sticking yer lip out and glaring fixedly at the telly.
Anyway, the floor is open: How do you feel about the silent treatment? and Is it abusive?
Oh, and just so I don't get my lip on, please be so kind as to read Celebrity Confessions