Jessica, 23

Species: Protoss

What’s the best reason to date a StarCraft player? 
We are independent — not needy or overbearing. 

What has playing StarCraft taught you about dating? 
Always be humble and be open to improvement. If things don’t go well in StarCraft, you can make little adjustments to your build order for next time. You can also make adjustments mid-relationship if things don’t feel right.  
 
I’m a devout Terran, but I'm dating a Zerg. How can we minimize conflict within our relationship while still maintaining strong armies and a competitive rivalry in the game? 
Learn to defend the Zerg rush as soon as possible. You will seriously get pissed off if you keep losing to that build. Also, both of you should avoid cheese in general.

I’ve been considering asking a fellow player out. Is there a creative/acceptable way to do this while playing, or would I ruin my chances if I asked her out mid-game? 
Definitely wait until after the game. Compliment his skills and ask if he’d want to meet up to work on improving your APM (actions per minute). 
 
I’m worried that my girlfriend is faking it. She says she’s not and that the sex we have is great, but sometimes I’m not convinced. Is there a way I can go about asking her or finding out for sure, or should I just take her word for it? 
If she’s faking it, it’s her problem. She isn’t even giving you a chance to please her if she isn’t being honest with you in the bedroom.  
 
I let the big “I love you” slip to my girlfriend of a few months while we were having sex, to no response. I’m not sure if she was ignoring it or if she just didn't hear it. It’s been a few days now and neither of us have brought it up. Should I ask her about it? 
You definitely have to back away and let it slide.  Attack the “I love you” base once you’ve built up your forces more, and get some weapon and armor upgrades.  Try saying that you love her with different words that aren’t so scary, like “I think you’re an amazing person,” and see what she says.  
 
I’m looking to make things a little more interesting in the bedroom, though my boyfriend — who’s a little vanilla — doesn’t seem to have any complaints. What can I do as a pleasant surprise that won’t freak him out? 
Don’t surprise him. I’d ask him if he’d be down for doing whatever “interesting” thing you’re into.  
 
What’s the best way to balance being an avid gamer and being in a relationship?
Make time for the relationship and for gaming. If your significant other is interested, you can play some games together. Just make sure the two are balanced. If you need a night to play Xbox, just tell her, and follow up by making plans to do something with her the next night.