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I'm broke, but I just met someone I really like, and I want to plan a fun, cheap first date. Any advice?
Cheap pizza is always good. During winter, sledding is fun and free. And, if you can't afford a sled, you can always find some cardboard!
Do ceramic artists make better lovers?
Of course! We're good with our hands.
My girlfriend is really self-conscious about her body. I think she's gorgeous, but she insists on wearing a t-shirt when we fool around. How can I make her feel more comfortable, and get her more naked?
Having the lights on is probably not the best thing. Try drawing her. Drawing someone tends to make them feel better about their body. You know, having it looked at in an artistic way.
I found out through Facebook that my long-time ex just got married. I feel really weird about it — I think I'm still in love. How I can finally get over him?
That's the eternal question, isn't it? Well, first off, think of all the bad things about him. One-night stands tend to fix temporary sadness, but they can make you feel worse in the long run.
What's the sexiest use of clay?
It depends on what you're into. If you like things slow and wet, throw a pot. If you like things fast and dirty and rough, pound out some clay slabs!
John, 29
Just for clarity, do you prefer to be called a ceramic artist, or a potter?
That's up to the individual, I guess. I prefer to be called John. Jack is okay, too.
What's the best way to hit on a ceramic artist?
A compliment is usually good. Of course, a good home-cooked meal is sure to impress. I believe the old expression that "the quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach" still holds true. Wild dance moves always catch my eye, too.
I'm broke, but I just met someone I really like, and I want to plan a fun, cheap first date. Any advice?
A walk is about as good as it gets, anywhere, any time of year. Some of the most romantic moments of my life have been on strolls in the evening.
What's the most appealing date after you've been working in the ceramic studio all day long?
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Maybe some exercise to loosen up after being stuck inside. Then a dip in a hot spring or a sauna. A little sip of spirits is also a nice way to relax.
I'm going through a dry spell. I want to get back out there, but it's been over a year. Any pointers on re-entering the dating scene?
Be yourself. If you like someone, or think you might, do something nice for them. In my experience picking a few wild posies for a lass never hurt one bit.
Steve, 54
Do ceramic artists make better lovers?
Don't know. Never tried it with one. Probably no real correlation between the two.
What's the sexiest use of clay?
Making wet sculptures.
My girlfriend is really self-conscious about her body. I think she's gorgeous, but she insists on wearing a t-shirt when we fool around.How can I make her feel more comfortable, and get her more naked?
Turn the lights off, and start out under the covers.
I'm going through a dry spell. I want to get back out there, but it's been over a year. Any pointers on re-entering the dating scene?
Hang out with a group of people with whom you have common interests and who are not all hitched up with each other. Then make the effort to just have fun, without pressuring yourself to "find a lay." While you're having fun, make sure to keep a keen eye for the subtle messages that are sent your way.
Heidi, 24
Does every ceramic artist have at least one Ghost moment? You know, lots of clay and naked, sexy time?
Personally, I have never had a Ghost moment. All the guys I've dated are not really into getting down and dirty with mud. I definitely think it would be hot!
I want to give this guy I'm dating a lap dance, but I'm nervous. What if I'm a terrible dancer? The lights are too bright? The garter is pinching? Have any advice for me?
If you're a decent-looking girl, half-naked and moving in a slightly seductive way, I think the guy is going to be too distracted to critique your dancing abilities.
I'm broke, but I just met someone I really like, and I want to plan a fun, cheap first date. Any advice?
Hiking is always a good way to learn about someone you are interested in, and all you need to buy is some water. You figure out if the guy is a wuss — how he handles difficult situations — and the only distraction from good conversation is the great outdoors. If the hike goes well, then hit a bar and drink some tasty beer before the soreness kicks in. If the hike was a disaster, tell him you are too tired and sore to do anything else.
Do ceramic artists make better lovers?
I think so. We are creative, good with our hands and have no problem being dirty.
This guy I'm dating wants us to watch porn when we fool around. I'm uneasy about it, but also intrigued. Should I go for it? Or would it just make me feel fat and boring in bed?
There's nothing wrong with giving it the old college try! Who knows? You might be totally into it and it could change your sex life forever. If you're not into it, just be honest and tell him he needs to respect your boundaries. It's all about trust and trying new things!
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I found out through Facebook that my long-time ex just got married. I feel really weird about it — I think I'm still in love. How I can finally get over him?
John, 29
What's the sexiest use of clay?
Does every ceramic artist have at least one Ghost moment? You know, lots of clay and naked, sexy time?
