Abbie, 22, Emerson College

What's the dating scene like at Emerson?

I know specifically within our quidditch club at Emerson there are a lot of quidditch relationships. I've been dating the same person for four years, but a lot of my friends have dated other quidditch players.

What quidditch term sounds most like sexual innuendo?

Probably "snatch the snitch."

Playing quidditch is essentially turning your fantasies into reality. What do you think is the best way to approach your partner about making fantasies a reality in the bedroom?

I probably wouldn't bring it up over dinner. It would probably have to be an in-the-moment type of discussion. I think it's important to be open and honest with your partner about things like that, and if they truly care about you, they won't judge you for whatever your fantasy is.

I gave my number to a guy at a party. It's been a few days and he hasn't called or texted me. What should I do?

If you aren't going to see him anytime soon, my guess is that he's probably not interested. If you think that you really like this guy and have means to get in touch with him, then give it a try. But if you think it's a long shot then it's probably not going to be anything. Move on — there are more people.

My roommate keeps having loud sex while I'm home, and I can't get any work done. How should I handle the situation?

If you're good friends with your roommate I would just tell them in a nice way. Don't get aggressive and angry about it, but say, "Maybe you could make sure no one's home if you're going to be that loud."

I met a girl and I really like her. What should I do to make the first date magical?

Find out things that she likes ahead of time if you can. If she really likes hiking, you can take her on a hike or something — that's a great opportunity to chat with her and get to know her a little more. I don't think movies make very good first dates, because you're not talking. Dinner's always a good choice, especially if it's a place that she likes.

If Harry Potter was a sex act, what would it be?

Oh no! I can only think of really horrible things!