So a while ago I wrote a tear about some women I've been with being too passive in bed. One of the many things wrong with that argument was the assignment of a gender stereotype based on an incomplete series of experiences. I've never had sex with a man, so I never really considered that a lot of women might have similarly dispassionate experiences with passive men. Earlier this year, I found myself having sex in the same room that my friend A was hooking up in. I remember looking over periodically, seeing him draped on top of his date in a Romanesque recline. He looked like he was idling away an afternoon on one elbow, nibbling grapes out of a bowl with his mouth.
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