I'm Not There is a sweet guy who has trouble coming during sex. He's looking for possible solutions, and a way to make his girlfriend feel less inadequate because of it. Miss Information has the cure, and after offering some physical tips, she's got ways to put the ladyfriend at ease:
I think it's less about words and more about grunts and moans. It should be really apparent that you're into the festivities. An orgasm is like a big wet sticky gold star for your partner. You need to give her a tangible substitute, whether it's compliments on her technique or a "OMG u R best FCK evr!" text message an hour after she drops you off.
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