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Posted by fishnetsandlight

Since we're all on the subject of potentially gross things...


Period sex.
I'm a fan, if for no other reason than it helps alleviate cramps. I wasn't always so eager to fly my crimson flag, though. By the time I started menstruating, I lived in a household that was less than woman-friendly. It was impressed upon me that men must never be made aware that you've got that going on. Pads were to be wrapped in fifty rolls of toilet paper and hidden deep inside the wastebasket.

Of course, around the same time, I was given a stern little talking to about how evil The Cardigans' "Lovefool" was. So, it's not that shocking that this bit of womanly wisdom was quickly discarded once I began making the hell-bound beast with two backs.

It could be that I just date unusual men, but most of them have been game regarding period sex. More so than I am, even. (One ex and I ruined a snow white resort duvet cover, at his urging.) Maybe it has underlying meaning for me because it was verboten in my house. Without getting into the messy details, my mother's husband was a Grade-A ass, and it was his delicate little sensibilities that I was to spare by hiding all signs that I was becoming a woman. With the men I welcomed into my life, my period was not only known about, the blood was often smeared onto them. I think of it as the female equivalent to ejaculating on your lover: this came from inside my body (the evil genitals, no less!) and you're cool with having it smeared on you.

What's more accepting than that?


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airheadgenius said:

A cramping punani needs to be stirred. It's that simple.

A few years back, I had to go to a fabric fair in Frankfurt. It was a solo business trip and, knowing how boring these things are, I invited a FWB who lived in Munich to join me. He was years younger than me, built like a brick shit house and with a penchant for extravagant and physical throw downs. We had sex on every surface and piece of furniture in the hotel room. At the end of the session, when the lights came up, I realised that I'd got my period. The room looked like a scene of a massacre. There was nothing to be done except to hope that I didn't see the cleaning crew as I left the hotel.

October 22, 2008 9:53 PM

anathema_teatime said:

Among the many, many reasons I love my boyfriend. Some time early in our relationship, before I knew how he felt about things like period sex, we were getting together for a hotel sex date, and I said, "Um, I hope this isn't a big deal, but I'm going to be on my period this weekend." He said, "Oh, so if I fuck you and then slap you with my hard-on, it'll make a cool pattern on your face?". I <3 perverts.

October 22, 2008 10:10 PM

dvaleriey said:

The Black Towel + Missionary Position = the preservation of my Victorian bedding.  

October 22, 2008 10:38 PM

loobetchka said:

Yep.. He's a CHARMER..

"Oh, so if I fuck you and then slap you with my hard-on, it'll make a cool pattern on your face?"

October 23, 2008 9:12 AM

zeitgeisty said:

www.youtube.com/watch

go to 8:42

October 23, 2008 10:37 AM

amboabe said:

One of my favorite things...

October 23, 2008 10:56 AM

Toluca_86 said:

"Yep.. He's a CHARMER..

"Oh, so if I fuck you and then slap you with my hard-on, it'll make a cool pattern on your face?""

Depends on how he said it, I suppose.  I was envisioning sort of a gentle joking tone.  In which case I'm not sure whether I would find it endearing or be kinda weirded out, personally...

October 23, 2008 11:54 AM

anathema_teatime said:

Well, we'd already established the face-slapping as a particular fetish of mine, and one he was willing to indulge. I guess I just sort of assumed that was implicit from my post, because otherwise why would I have found it endearing?

If one enjoy D/s play and finds a person who not only shares one's kinks but takes them in new and interesting directions . . . why wouldn't one consider him a charmer? Of course, this is also someone who takes care of me when I have the flu, is adored by my parents for his nerdy politeness, and would leave work in the middle of the day to bring me flowers when I was freaking out because my bike was stolen (and then gave me his spare bike). I mean, really. One can be a Dom and still a nice person. In fact, it's considered rather the thing these days.

October 23, 2008 12:02 PM

recycledbrooklyn said:

I've never been deterred by it.  I've met women though who are insecure about sex during their periods.  I was with a woman a while back who was all red-faced and apologetic when we discovered in the heat of things that we were stirring the pot, so to speak.  Damn shame because it rather spoiled the moment and up to that point we were having a great time.  

October 23, 2008 6:44 PM

Thea said:

Sex in the red is awesome. Wet, feral, societally sanctioned... what's not to love?

October 24, 2008 12:52 AM

Thea said:

Plus the hormones can make your boobs swell a bit and your nipples more sensitive

October 24, 2008 12:52 AM

thatasianygirl said:

...wow, this piece is timed perfectly. i just had my first period sex yesterday last night, and yes-it was the dude who was all "i don't care, let's do it." it was a bit messy, considering the first day of flow-but overall-not as bad as you think. although certainly made awkward by him cleaning up my lady bits before i left the safety towel for the bathroom haven where i recorked myself.

October 24, 2008 2:23 AM

danrimage said:

As someone who got his red wings in my late teens, I have to say I vastly prefer it to regular sex. In fact, to be honest it's always been a serious fetish of mine. What's not to love about it?

Blushing now.In a good way.

October 24, 2008 6:47 AM

vix_en25 said:

as martha would say 'It's a good thing.'

October 24, 2008 2:29 PM

zeitgeisty said:

What's the difference between Sarah Palin and a menstruating vagina?

Nothing.. they're both bloody cunts...

- joke works better if you're british.

October 24, 2008 2:39 PM

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