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Raised On the Stuff: A Parental Thank You Letter in the Heart of August

Posted by John Constantine

My father turned sixty years-old today and, while he’s never been too into it, the man has been playing games from the beginning. It ain’t father’s day and it ain’t mother’s day but today seemed like an appropriate time to say thank you to every parent that has encouraged their child to pick up a controller. Happy birthday, pop.



Since their inception, videogames have been terrifying red-blooded American moms and dads. As What They Play found just recently, parents are more concerned about their kids playing videogames than they are about them drinking alcohol or watching porn. My parents? Not so much.

I am not positive when the system came into my home, but it was there before I was old enough to remember it being new. I still remember playing my very first game on my folks’ Atari 2600. I was four years old and my brother took it upon himself to teach me how to play Defender. I didn’t quite understand what I was doing other than moving up and moving down, but that was enough for me to be entertained. There were other games in the house. Pitfall and The Empire Strikes Back are the only two still fresh in my memory. My parents weren’t concerned by the fact that they’re children were playing games. They were simply happy to see one more thing interest us and spark our imaginations. We had an NES by 1987 and both my mother and father continued to foster our love of games all the way into adulthood.

To my mother, thank you for your constant and genuine interest in what fascinated your sons, for Sonic and Knuckles, and for letting your child go out in public dressed like Vincent Valentine.

To my father, thank you for the countless hours in Playland Arcade, for the many two-player sessions of Bad Dudes, and for that trip to Kiddie City Toys when you bought that copy of Mega Man 2 “for yourself”.

To any parents reading, well, you’re already gamers if you’re here. But to any who might not be, don’t be afraid of anything your child loves. Unless it’s knives. Or fire.

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corky said:

HAPPY, HAPPY 60th BIRTHDAY to John's Pop across the miles and years. Much health, peace, love and happiness in this new decade of your life.

August 14, 2008 9:10 PM

Rob said:

sniff...tear.

took my dad 25 years (post Pong), but he finally played a game...Wii bowling.

August 15, 2008 10:05 AM

johnspapa said:

Thanks son...never gave it that much thought.  Unlike some other parents I was much more concerned about drugs, alcohol and other unhealthy forms of acting out.  I still lament the loss of "real" arcade games...

August 17, 2008 3:39 PM

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John Constantine, our superhero, was raised by birds and then attended Penn State University. He is currently working on a novel about a fictional city that exists only in his mind. John has an astonishingly extensive knowledge of Scientology. Ultimately he would like to learn how to effectively use his brain. He continues to keep Wu-Tang's secret to himself.

Derrick Sanskrit is a self-professed geek in a variety of fields including typography, graphic design, comic books, music and cartoons. As a professional hipster graphic designer, his recent clients have included Hooksexup, Pitchfork and MoCCA, among others.

Amber Ahlborn - artist, writer, gamer and DigiPen survivor, she maintains a day job as a graphic artist. By night Amber moonlights as a professional Metroid Fanatic and keeps a metal suit in the closet just in case. Has lived in the state of Washington and insists that it really doesn't rain as much as everyone says it does.

Nadia Oxford is a housekeeping robot who was refurbished into a warrior when the world's need for justice was great. Now that the galaxy is at peace (give or take a conflict here or there), she works as a freelance writer for various sites and magazines. Based in Toronto, Nadia's prized possession is a certificate from the Ministry of Health declaring her tick and rabies-free.

Bob Mackey is a grad student, writer, and cyborg, who uses the powerful girl-repelling nanomachines mad science grafted onto his body to allocate time towards interests of the nerd persuasion. He believes that complaining about things on the Internet is akin to the fine art of wine tasting, but with more spitting into buckets.

Joe Keiser has a programming degree from Johns Hopkins University, a tiny apartment in Brooklyn, and a fake toy guitar built in the hollowed-out shell of a real guitar. He writes about games and technology for a variety of outlets. One day he will stop doing this. The day after that, police will find his body under a collapsed pile of (formerly neatly alphabetized) collector's edition tchotchkes.

Cole Stryker is an American freelance writer living in York, England, where he resides with his archeologist wife. He writes for a travel company by day and argues about pop culture on the internet by night. Find him writing regularly here and here.

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