I go to great lengths to describe myself accurately on my Hooksexup personals profile. Many would say it's over long, but I don't care. It amused me to write it and plenty of men have written and said they enjoyed it too, so I have no particular reason to change it.
But even if I did, does the content really matter? Apparently, it matters to those who find me entertaining, but so many men read it, or at least glance over the details and manage to miss out one very salient fact. Well, two to be precise.
I have children.
It's not written in code or buried deep at the bottom of the page. It's right there near the top, clearly stated "Have children: Yes. We live together". And what d'ya know beautiful people? That means that I've got children and, yep you've guessed it, we live together.
So this bloke writes to me yesterday expressing an interest. I check out his profile and he seems pretty cool, is an appropriate age for me, decent looking, but on further inspection of the "You" box, I see that he's said no to his date having children.
I write reply and point out that he seems to have missed the small print and that I actually do have offspring. He then writes back and says that he's not interested because "I grew up a stepchild and it sucked. I just want to be honest."
Now, I have no problem that he doesn't want to date a woman with kids. Back before I had mine, I wouldn't have dated a man with kids either, so it's pointless getting all high horse-ish about it now. But, surely a man that experienced life as a step child would be the perfect candidate as a step father. Since he knew exactly how it sucked, he could figure out how to make it not suck for someone else. Right the wrongs so to speak. The man doesn't owe me an explanation, but if he is going to proffer one, surely he can come up with something with a little more credibility. If I was a teacher, I would be sorely disappointed to read "my dog ate my homework"
Another man last week missed the fact of my two children and, when it was pointed out, he declined also. This time with "my last girlfriend had a child and that didn't work out so..." Yeah, complete with the last sentence hanging ",,,"
Now, if it didn't work out with that chick, and she presumably was female, did he stop dating women? His brand of logic would necessitate it no? If it's a given that all women are the same and all children are the same and all dynamics of human relationships are the same, then that's a fair extrapolation my friend. But given that none of that is true, it's just another dog ate my homework line.
The thing is with both these chumps, their inability to a) actually read my profile and b) extend their own train of thought would've been a major deal breaker for me, so in that respect it's an all round winning situation.
Over to you, Date Machiners, post your "my dog ate my homework" excuses here.
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