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  • In Other Blogs: YouPorn Lives!

    Posted by Sarah

      Scanner stands up for the little people…or at least, the little people who get fined for using their breasts to crush beer cans. Kind of gives titty-fucking a whole new twist…

    Scanner also brings us Porno hankies…sluts who are trying to steal Halloween (but are they pirate-sluts or nurse-sluts?)…YouPorn versus the government (poorly-lit home movies of blow jobs WIN!)…And an IT-geek/bear-about-town’s tale of a Larry Craig sexcapade. Sex with Craig might have been “clumsy and unremarkable,” but apparently you get twenty bucks out of the deal. Oh, and the memories.

      Screebgrab’s Peter Smith tells us that someone is paying John Travolta way too much, and Ed Burns way too little: Ed Burns’ new movie will be released on iTunes.

    Plus, Part 3 of the “Top Thirteen Greatest Fictional Movie Presidents Ever.” Hail to the Chiefs.  And good news for those who can’t get enough of Underworld, or Kate Beckinsale’s leather-clad ass: There’s another Underworld coming soon. As Peter says, “Apparently for the first time we'll experience the Underworld universe through the eyes of the Lycans. I feel a little more complete inside.” Us too, Peter. Us too.    

      And the Hooksexup Video Blog brings you a whole bunch of hot chicks living together, and having their lives taped! This week: the girls are videotaped as they watch…old videotapes of themselves.

    Money quote (and shot?): “I’m really happy that we videotaped ourselves in college running around in bikinis and hooking up and having fun because one day we’re going to be old and crusty and we can show that to our grandchildren, and they’ll know that we were hot.” Amazingly, this was not Britney Spears talking.

    — Nicole Ankowski


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  • "So many Oscar noms, so many talented actors, so much Buffy."

    Posted by Sarah

    Another great dispatch from our film issue: "Do-overs," in which we compare sex scenes in older films and their newer remakes. Below, a scene from 1988's Dangerous Liaisons. Click here to see three other version of this scene. 


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  • “He's not weird for the sake of being weird; he's just weird because he's weird.”

    Posted by Sarah

    Two terrific pieces from the film issue that I missed while I was out: 

     
    This is a great, long interview with Joseph Lanza, whose book Phallic Frenzy “spends as many pages describing [Ken] Russell's onscreen pageantry as its symbolic underpinnings: exaggerated phallic imagery, abrasive anti-religious scenes, nude male wrestling, incontinence, rape and forced enemas.”

    Says Lanza, “Some people will look at the book and say, "Phallic Frenzy? This must be pornography." Well, it's about penises, but it's often about how terrifying they can be, and what the penis might have represented to Ken Russell at various times of his life.”

     
    In Will Doig’s charming piece, “Hollywood Square,” Will talks about his love for mediocre Hollywood comedies. Many of them feature John Candy. None of them are good date movies.

    Made in America is not a film you want anyone to know you've seen, least of all a philosophy major from the University of Maryland whom you're trying to have sex with. I knew, even as I was walking the box to the Blockbuster counter, that I was torpedoing the date. I could have rented a Cassavetes or a Schlesinger, but I couldn't stop myself. I was going to make him watch this, dammit.”


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  • From the Archives: "She told me I was brave and she was proud of me and that I had a perfectly shaped cervix."

    Posted by Sarah

     

    In "Weird Science," Ada Calhoun participates in a study to measure the effectiveness of a "female Viagra."

    "I inserted the probe until the rubber guard stopped it from going in any further. The tester had been thoughtful enough to leave the probe on a heating pad so it was warm and felt like nothing so much as an incredibly small dildo. It was so small, in fact, that I could barely feel it inside me. But the wires running out of it and into the wall made me wonder if they weren't going to start pumping alien semen into me."

    Ada is a Hooksexup consulting editor and editor-in-cheif of Babble.


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  • Hooksexup Video of the Day: King

    Posted by Sarah

    From Hooksexup Video's "50 Greatest Sex Scenes in Cinema."  [Note: it may take a moment to load.]

     


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  • Hooksexup takes Sophie on a date....

    Posted by Sarah

     

    In this week's Hooksexup Date Sophie and Kristie Alshaibi go to the zoo, a wine store and back to Kristie's house where they play a board game called "Fetish." Can you guess what happens next?


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  • New on Hooksexup, 10.26.2007: "The media has basically been co-opted and made rich" -- Brian DePalma

    Posted by Sarah

    Brian DePalma discusses his new film about the Iraq war, Redacted.

    From Phil Nugent's intro:

    The film takes off from an actual atrocity committed by U.S. soldiers in March of 2006: in the town of Al-Mahmudiyah, a fourteen-year-old Iraqi girl was raped and killed by five soldiers, who also murdered her parents and her five-year-old sister. The incident recalls the case of a Vietnamese woman whose rape at the hands of American soldiers during the Vietnam war served as the basis for De Palma's 1989 Casualties of War, a movie he struggled for years to finance.

    Seeing history repeat itself, De Palma decided to tap into his long-standing obsession with the filter of media and tell a story about soldiers in Iraq, driven psychotic by endlessly extended tours of duty, using his own mock-media syntax. The action of the film is seen through the camera of a soldier making his own video diary of his time in Iraq, through the footage of a French documentary crew, through various blog entries and YouTube postings, and even through security-camera feed.

     


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  • Today in Music: “I kind of write with my heart, and Dan writes with his dick.”

    Posted by Sarah

     

    Choice excerpts from today’s interview with A.C. Newman, of The New Pornographers.

    Anyone who is doing something creative, they're always chasing something. And a lot of the time you're not even sure what it is you're chasing. That's the best explanation I've ever found for that.

    What have you been chasing?
    I don't know, maybe some sort of formless happiness? If I could put it into words I would have a number-one hit.

    You’re not a porn fan?
    No, not particularly. It usually looks like they just fell out of a Skid Row bar. You might as well be jerking off over an anatomy textbook. Which people probably do.

    Do you find that married sex is better?
    Sure. Infinitely better. What possible answer would I give? Like I'm really going to say, "Things aren't going too well in bed for me now." That'd be the pull quote, right?

     


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  • New on Hooksexup 10.25.2007: “Your booty's good. But it's not that good, sweetie.”

    Posted by Sarah

    Hey there,

    So much new stuff! I was out of town working at our Boston screening of Jimmy Carter Man from Plains, and look what I missed! 

     

    Two questions for Miss Info this week, first from a woman whose vibrator keeps coming out of her pussy, the second from a woman who is dumping a guy who never calls.

    Best bit of advice:You need to relax, Ejected. It sounds like your muscles are clenching up. Sometimes a lightweight piece of plastic is no match for an aperture capable of expelling nine-pound humans and ping-pong balls.”


    More Advice, this time from movie extras:

    I have a big crush on someone who works as a movie extra. How can I bag him?

    Tell him, "I thought you were totally believable in that scene." He's desperate and ignored on-set. -- Michael, 37 (that's him in the pic above)

    Get him some lines. Then ask for a blowjob. It's usually the other way around, but this is Hollywood 101. -- Arecee, 18

    Just ask him, but when you do, substitute "extra" with "background artist." -- David, 33


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  • In Other Blogs: James Lipton was once a p-i-m-p

    Posted by Sarah

     

    Are we all connected, like my college stoner friends used to say after reading up on quantum physics? Seems so. Those crazy kids at Scanner prove it, by playing their own version of six degrees of separation...

      See what The Bachelor has in common with a zombie sex guide. Tip: It’s like the most emotional tips for zombie S&M evah! Also: what do James Lipton and Huggy Bear have in common? You will never freakin’ guess. As Lipton says:

    This was when I was very very young, living in Paris, penniless, unable to get any kind of working permit... I had a friend who worked in what is called the Milieu, which is that world and she suggested to me one night, `Look, you'll be my mec... We would translate it perhaps... as pimp.

    "We were earning our living together, this young woman and I, we made a rather good living, I must say."

    Seriously. Lipton was pimpin’.

      Screengrab also blows our minds, bringing us in interview with Canadian maverick direcor David Cronenberg. Apparently he almost helmed Basic Instinct 2, but he script was rejected for being “too interesting.” Where would Sharon Stone be now if he had? Oh, the humanity. Also up: American Gangsters, the Son of Dracula, and that hot chick from Transformers is set to play a cheerleader who kills boys due to demonic possession. It’s a comedy, yo.

      And the Hooksexup Video Blog brings us some very special public service announcements…Please, eat your crackers responsibly.

    — Nicole Ankowski

     


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  • In Other (Photo) Blogs: What Happens in the Dreampod Stays in the Dreampod

    Posted by Sarah

      Just like the seasons, photo-artist Siege embraces change. This week he dismantled his Dreampod. (What’s a Dreampod, you wonder, and where can you get one? As Grant Stoddard described it, “With some colored gels, a few cameras and a harem of female friends, he created what he calls a ‘dreampod’ in his bedroom, a comfortable space where Siege and his friends are free to express themselves sexually and artistically.”) Siege found the letting go freeing, though as a good-bye he invites us to look back at some of the deliciousness that came from the pod. Apparently deliciousness comes in both hot and cold varieties.

    After looking at these pics, you may feel like Stoddard did: “I alternate between thinking, ‘These are some of the coolest images I've seen’ and ‘I'll never be able to walk around Williamsburg again, knowing that above some Polish bakery, Siege or someone like him is getting away with murder.’

      Autumn invites us to meet her lovely, freckled friend Luiza…the two girls play in the sheets and get to know Dolly Parton.

      Brandon still has his intern wandering around naked, though he’s also contemplating if he should add more ladies to his portfolio. Brandon says he can’t help the plethora of peni, since he just has “more dude-friends than chick-friends.” Brandon, we’re okay with that. So okay with that.

      Chase examines nuns and his version of a burning bush

      And Rose + Olive find multiple ways to explore one beautiful woman…slow, sensual, and a great way to end the late afternoon.

    — Nicole Ankowski


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  • We’re listening to… Palomar

    Posted by Sarah

    Yes, Palomar is a great band. They’re from NYC, three women one man, they play melodic, guitar-filled rock that’s great for cruising around with the windows open.

    Mp3 of "Our Haunt" here.

    Also check out their MySpace page for the excellent songs "Bury My Closer," "Beats Beat Nothing" and "Knitting for Pleasure."

    Palomar's most recent, and most excellent album is "All Things, Forests" and was released on March 20, 2007 on Misra Records.

     


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  • Free Advance Screening: Jimmy Carter Man From Plains

    Posted by Sarah

     

    Hooksexup and Sony Classics are co-hosting screenings of Jimmy Carter Man From Plains in New York and LA tonight, and Chicago, Boston and San Francisco later this week and you’re invited! Bring your friends!

    To see the trailer visit the official site.  


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  • From the Archives: "Now I had a new one-inch orifice in my middle."

    Posted by Sarah

    Turned Inside Out by Jennifer Gilmore is a personal essay about sex while living with an ileostomy, a piece of small intestine outside the body that empties waste into a plastic bad attached to the body. Ileostomies are common in patients whose large intestines can’t process waste or have been removed.  

    The first time I had sex while wearing an ileostomy — with the man who I had been with before my colon became mega-toxic, on the brink of explosion — I could not escape the bag. Sex is always intertwined with fantasy, but instead of imagining that I'd been a very naughty girl who needed a good spanking, I was only thinking, Oh my god, it's going to come undone. What if it comes undone? My small intestine will be exposed and I'll look like I have a little flaccid dick coming out of my belly. He'll think I'm disgusting. I am disgusting. I can't do this. Why did I think I could do this?”  


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  • New on Hooksexup 10.22.07: The Film Issue!

    Posted by Sarah


     

    Check out Hooksexup’s film issue! We do special issues every two months or so, although it’s been a while since our last one, the Dating Issue. The kick-off (and kick-ass) piece is by Scanner’s Sarah Hepola, about the cultural impact of Fast Times at Ridgemont High. Can you believe the movie turned 25 this year? Read the piece below and check out the line-up for the issue here.  

     

     


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  • Free Twizzlers!

    Posted by Sarah

     

    Today, as a gift for our two-year anniversary of being preferred Staples rewards customer we got a free carton of individually wrapped twizzlers! Hell yes. I've had two already. These are the joys of office life.


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  • From the Archives: "Flasher Contest," "Voyeurweb" and "Flashing for Fun"

    Posted by Sarah


    *This blog is PG-13 so I had to blur some of the nakedness in the above photo. But if you go to the piece you’ll see these people, and others, in their naked glory.

    Today I found an interesting article in the archives about flashers, who are people who take their clothes off in public places. At the beginning of the piece I thought “how quaint,” this writer thought that it was unusual to find a community of flashers on the internet. Since this piece was written in 1998, only a few years after Al Gore (congrats!) invented the internet, I thought maybe the author wasn’t so familiar with the numerous groups of naked people on the internet.

    But it turns out the flashers are different. They are regular people who get off on being naked in unexpected places and they have a code that includes not flashing schoolchildren from inside tan trench coats. The author points out that before the interweb flashers were alone and probably thought they were weird pervs, but now they have a place where they can post pictures and virtually slap each others asses and say “you go girl!” They gain power and confidence by flashing.  Reading it might make you want to get naked in public, too. Or maybe you already do?


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  • New on Hooksexup, 10.19.07: "Hey, you're sexy! But you're kind of ugly!"

    Posted by Sarah

     

    Actors like you — Simon Pegg, Seth Rogen — you're depicted as schlubby sex symbols. How do you feel about that?
    Well, it's not great, to be honest. The whole idea of, "Paul Giamatti is kind of sexy." Well, yeah he's sexy. Ask his fucking wife or anyone he's ever laid.

    Is it surprising? No, because attraction doesn't come from abs and pecs. It comes from somewhere else altogether. If Penelope Cruz was a shit actress, no one would fancy her. It's that simple. Because the actresses who are beautiful and act like shit are going to be forgotten in about five days. So it's double-edged sword, because people are like, "Hey, you're sexy! But you're kind of ugly!" I'm not supposed to be happy about that. 


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  • Also New on Hooksexup, 10.19.07: Ben Affleck's Directorial Debut

    Posted by Sarah

    Stolen from Screengrab, film review excerpts:  

     

    Gone Baby Gone: "Gone Baby Gone turns out to be a sure-footed, high-intensity drama, expertly written, expertly played and, yes, expertly directed."

    Wristcutters: A Love Story: "Balls and a fondness for the irreverent will only get you so far."

    The Kubrick Collection: "To argue that Kubrick's work is cold suggests a willful ignorance of the films themselves."
     


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  • Even More New on Hooksexup: Naked Women (what a surprise)

    Posted by Sarah

    Fridays are big for us. Today we have a gallery by someone called Think and Shoot. That's not his real name, for some reason he wanted to use a fake name on this gallery. Unusual - you'd think the model might not want to be identified, but the photographer? Aren't all photographers narcissists who want to be famous? Guess not.

    Anyway, what's not new is that that this guy named Dirtwood gave the gallery a bad review. He told us to fire our photo editor! I, personally, do not want to fire our photo editor, Jodie Abrams. Dirtwood is a pretty regular Hooksexup reader and photo-commenter, so I guess he thinks he has some say, but he doesn't. Anyway, the next feedbacker told him what was up.

    Dirtwood, you need to shut up and get a clue. Firstly, alot of peole love the photographs on Hooksexup including myself and all my friends that log on specifically for that. I am a photo enthusiast and have worked as an assistant photo editor and the magazine tells the photo editor what to do and what to choose. So take your negativity elsewhere.”

    Decide for yourself.

     
     


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  • Wanna be our date?

    Posted by Sarah


    We’ll take you out, get you naked and put you up on our site! Sound fun? Hooksexup is looking for anyone 21 or older, male or female in the NYC area who want to participate in the Hooksexup Date. In the past Hooksexup has focused on the photographer; the Hooksexup Date focuses on the subject – you! The requirements are taking your clothes off until you’re fully nude in the privacy of a location like your home. If you’re interested please send a headshot and full-length photos and/or a link to your portfolio, MySpace, Facebook, etc to .

    Check out past dates with Lauren, Madison, Audrey and Natasha.


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  • Cats teach us to find a mate who will cater to our every need, and to piss on the carpet when they don't.

    Posted by Sarah

     

    Todays Sex Advice From... is particularly funny. Some of our favorite answers:  

     

    How can you tell if you're a cat person?
    There are several stages before you become a full-blown cat lady. There's the obvious living alone in a studio apartment, having more than one cat and learning to knit. Then there are the less obvious feelings of increasingly unsubtle loneliness, whispering "I love you" to your cat while lying alone in bed and spending hours on Amazon.com looking for the perfect DustBuster. Unfortunately, not unlike syphilis, these stages often lay dormant until one day you wake up and you're a full-on cat lady.

    Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, his cat watches. It kind of freaks me out. Should I ban her from the room?
    For cats, watching humans have sex is just like humans watching animals have sex on the Discovery Channel. It's nothing to be concerned about.

    I own six cats. Is this something I should bring up before I bring a guy home?
    Maybe you should just go back to his place.

     


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  • In Other Blogs: Ann Coulter's Penis

    Posted by Sarah

     

     

    What a day, what a day in those other blogs…Scanner gets its video on, featuring Brazilian artists, condoms, and the hilarious (fake) ad for the “Sexy Costume Warehouse”… I now want to be “Sexy Mustard” for Halloween!

      Scanner also gives you the scoop on NYC open casting for Michael Cera’s new movie; the new Wonder Woman movie; Ann Coulter’s penis; and what happens when sex-toy companies send the Scanner ladies free sex toys (blog entry title: Hey Everybody, I Just Pummeled My Vagina).

      Screengrab tells us who That Guy is (hint: he drove Cameron’s dad’s car in Ferris Bueller’s Day Off)…that Wristcutters: A Love Story rocks almost as much as Gogol Bordello….and that Brian De Palma doesn’t want his film Redacted redacted.

      The Hooksexup Video Blog explores what tiny penises and Australian men who speed have in common…the joys of 1970s sex…the cheesiness that was Hellraiser’s Pinhead (and take votes the new Pinhead role in Dimension’s upcoming remake; Dane Cook, anyone?). Oh yes, and Stephen Colbert’s running for president. Of South Carolina.

    Get your sexy mustard on. 

    – Nicole Ankowski

     

     


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  • From the Archives: "I love my cleavage."

    Posted by Sarah

    In 2000 Leslie Lyons interviewed and photographs six thirty-year-olds for a piece called Talking to Strangers: Six  At Thirty.

    From her introduction:

    The end of our twenties is seen by some as the death of childhood, but the six subjects I met at the Chelsea Hotel were playful, curious and open-minded — far from stodgy adults.”

    From the interviews:

    Would you trade in your age for another?
    On paper, thirty doesn't look as sexy as twenty-seven did, but it's hard to imagine wanting to go back to a time when I didn't know myself as well as I do now.

    Do you think about sex more or less than you did when you were twenty-one, twenty-five?
    I used to think about it all the time when I was twenty-one. At twenty-five maybe 70 percent of the time. At thirty about 50 percent.

    Do you feel noticeably more sexually mature now that you are thirty?
    I feel sexier because I'm a lot more in tune with what I want to look like. I know I can have more sex if I want it.
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  • New on Hooksexup, 10.17.07: “You know what labia are?”

    Posted by Sarah

     

    “I'd like your opinion about something,” she said.

    “Sure."

    "I want you to be honest with me," she said. "You have to be honest about this. None of that polite bullshit."

    "Sure," I said, "I'll be honest."

    I was surprised to hear Mrs. Dent say the word "bullshit." Until that point, it hadn't seemed like a word she might use. But seeing her sitting there in the kitchen with her hair undone and an empty scotch glass in her hand, it started to make sense. I pictured her like this every night after wrestling that bouncy Andrew into his bed. She'd have a scotch and watch old movies on television, staring at people who made sense to her.

    "Do you know what labiaplasty is?" she asked me.


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  • In Other Blogs: Naked Interns!

    Posted by Sarah

     

      If you haven’t checked out our newest photoblogger Autumn, please do. Though be forewarned: you might become addicted. She tends to take sexy/gorgeous pictures of sexy/gorgeous men and women, in sexy/gorgeous places like Brazil, Bahia…and her bedroom. Her most recent post involves the magic of hot tubs. As she writes, I imagine most girls have a story about the first time that they discovered hot tub magic. I was fourteen or fifteen…

      Brandon in Brandonland is having way too much fun with his new, adorable intern Adrian. Even we don’t make our interns run around the building naked (though we wouldn’t stop them). Brandon definitely gives his neighbors something to talk about...

      And there’s so much more. Are you in the mood for space babies? Chase explores sexier options for the NASA adult diaper…Rose + Oliver explore “free-range nakedism” and early-morning sunlight…and Siege enjoys the views from his new apartment’s bedroom. Hint: you will, too.   – Nicole Ankowski


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  • Rufus, You Old Codger!

    Posted by Sarah

    Our CEO and publisher Rufus Griscom had a big birthday a couple of weeks ago and his wife (and Hooksexup VP of Advertising) brought their son into the office to surprise him. Then we had cupcakes.


    After the jump more pictures of our sioree.  

     

    Read More...


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  • From the Archives: “Mother I can't get pregnant when nobody even asks me out.”

    Posted by Sarah

     

    Learner’s Permit by Mary Karr. In this excerpt from Cherry: A Memoir, Karr discusses her first kiss and her mother’s obsession with birth control.

    “You look back at Mother after a long silence, and she says, with no segue whatsoever, If you want to have sex, so be it. Just don't get pregnant.

    Mother! you say with all the virginal outrage you can marshal given the amount of time you spend reading Henry Miller in the bathroom. You've never had a steady boyfriend. Nobody's ever even tried to feel you up. Some girl on your volleyball team who talked about making "dry love" with her boyfriend gave the closest firsthand reportage you've received on actual boning. Even Clarice, who's been going steady for more than a year, doesn't do more than French kiss and dole out the occasional hickey her boyfriend can hide with a Band-Aid at home and wear like a badge with his buddies.”


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  • New on Hooksexup, 10/11/2007: Fierce Females

    Posted by Sarah

     

    Today’s Sex Advice From… taps the psyches of female fighters. They give advice on exerting dominance from the bottom, what fighting gear plays well in the bedroom and what to do when your SO’s friends aren’t showing you the love you deserve.


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  • From the Archives: "Zoloft will put your sex drive into reverse."

    Posted by Sarah

    Paul Festa describes how anti-depressants squelched his libido, which he experienced as a relief from his cock-obsessed former self. But does he really want to live a life without sex?  

    “On antidepressants, I regain a clarity of mind and levity of spirit that three decades' worth of disappointment, death, betrayal, abandonment, artistic and personal failure and other ordinary life experiences have dulled. My youthfulness is restored, except in my erotic life.

    Antidepressants may inadvertently give you not only erotic progeria, but premature sexual nostalgia. I dimly remember, as I sometimes do the hallucinations of a childhood fever, the humors that drove me out into the night in search of cock. I was happy in those searches, in a transient, miserable way, but do I really want the fever to return? The depression of my sex drive has become my liberation from it.”


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