So, PO made an annoying comment over on spjv's post about condoms, so I thought I'd roll out an oldie that caused a bit of a hoo-ha back in the day on my previous blog. Anyone remember that? Ooo, doesn't fishnets call her punani a hoo ha, or did I just make that up??
Let me preface it by saying that I hate condoms. They smell, they burn, they look stupid, but I hate the following attitudes more...
I had an annoying conversation with my brother about a young woman with 3 kids - all in care due to neglect and about to have another. His opinion was that she should 'get her tubes tied". Well, maybe so, but the bit that gets me is - what about the fathers? Although in this case, the title of father seems to be a little grand.
Why is it usually a woman's 'job' to either take care of contraception or persuade a man to do so? Every safe method a female can elect to use is either physically invasive or chemically invasive, whereas the male just has to be accessorized.
Maybe I should be writing girls and boys rather than men or women, because I haven't encountered a guy like this in decades. I just wish teenage boys could be taught to be responsible - that it is as much their job as their girlfriends....
This conversation happened in England where the teen pregnancy rate is the highest in Europe. America's teen pregnancy rate is the highest in the industrialized world. Two countries led, at least until recently in England, by religious idiots. Preaching abstinence clearly is not working.
Sex education should be mandatory in schools and contraception should be free to everyone, regardless of age or income. Although the 'free' bit isn't working so well back home.
Please people, educate your sons so that no-one has to hear that 'she got pregnant on purpose" bullshit.
Ooo - just thought of a new line 'you can't get trapped if it's wrapped'. Maybe I will start a campaign.......
And gentlemen, before you start bitching about condoms and your poor poor encased penii, just give a thought to having to deal with periods every month, cramps and bleeding and buying expensive products to manage that and possibly having to deal with an unexpected pregnancy and deciding whether to terminate or having a planned pregnancy and labour and child birth and breastfeeding and then, when you've got a little bit more of a clue, shut the fuck up!
I like this photo because it's ages since I've seen a man walking around shirtless. Made me kinda nostalgic.
Jared Leto. He'd be a good pick to mow my lawn. This is not a euphemism. I am talking about the back yard. That is not a euphemism either.
Here are some I made earlier:
Turning into Zeitgeisty
Feeling my age
The real deal profile
In my bedroom one will find
Biggin it up
The facial hair pubic hair conundrum
The trouble with rich men
5 Things I am Thankful for
British Personal Ads
How do you like to be dumped?
Not much to do with dating
Duh!
Do you date aliens"
Man's Best Friend