In case you were planning to write to me:
If you even have the slightest tendency towards erectile dysfunction, don't tell me you're as hard as a rock and can keep it up all night.
And quit with the news that you can do every position in the Karma Sutra when you can only just touch your toes.
Save your cunning linguist claims if in reality, you just lap like a dog. It ain't ice cream.
Don't even talk to me about foot rubs and back massages if you have trouble opening a jam jar.
Please don't even talk about how big you are. 6" is a requirement not a boast.
(Don't cry for me too much - I've never got all of these at one go. Just casting my mind back over a few encounters)
Apparently I've got a few natural charms which have always been well received, I do my kegels like my life depends on it and, if I say so myself, my blowjobs are as sweet as sweet can be, but beyond that I don't claim to be a sexual super woman. I have an ordinary body, my back and hamstrings got bollixed years ago and consequently I am not very bendy and a lot of the stuff I read on Hooksexup leaves me cold. I don't get off on having my face slapped or my nipples electrocuted. To me, it's like eating peas with chopsticks. Sure, I can do it, but I really don't see the point.
One of my real life (as opposed to blog persona) traits is that I am hugely optimistic and I tend to take people at their word. Plus, I don't do well with disappointment. There is nothing worse than thinking you're in for some quality boning only to find you've been sold a pup.
In short, please don't claim extravagant sexual prowess if you can't deliver.
I don't expect normal humans to have special powers.
Regular will do.
Ben Harper
Here are some I made earlier:
The facial hair pubic hair conundrum
The trouble with rich men
5 Things I am Thankful for
British Personal Ads
How do you like to be dumped?
Not much to do with dating
Duh!
Do you date aliens"
Man's Best Friend
How do you like your foreskin?
Why do men love breasts?
Who pays?
What if?
Have you ever been experienced?
Surprise! I'm Pregnant!
Dogs and Dating
Erectile Dysfunction
Daddy's Girl
I need a Frenchman
What I want
The Fart Edition
Fisting and small snatches