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It seems to me that bi-sexual peeps are in a position of great strength in that they get the inside skinny on both men and women. Straight women know the emotional life of their female friends inside out, but little about each other's bodies. Straight men, in the main, know jack shit about any given emotion and little of the specifics of their friend's anatomy, beyond posturing in the locker room and making extravagant claims about the women they've been with.

I am extremely familiar with my punani, but don't know squat about anyone elses since I've only ever had sex with men. (I also don't entirely know what don't know squat means, but I am practising my American)  I've seen the exterior of a few snatches in the changing room at the Y and the interior of more than a few in porn, but have never actually explored one. So Zeit's post the other day was strangely informative - assuming that any of it was accurate that is.

Women don't share information about their vaginas. Even with all the comments on Z's blog, no one laid claim to long labia or an over sized clit for example, but men are just itching to share that their's lists to the left or has an unusual birth mark on it. Is it the interior-ness of vaginas that makes them verboten as a topic of conversation?

I found out from the Hooksexup Confessions that women need lube. And that was news to me too. As I maintain, unprotected vaginal sex with an uncircumcised man does not require any slimy assistance, but even with a circumcised knob, I've never had the need for it. Various potions and food stuffs have been played with for fun, but not as a requirement to aid the mechanics of the proceedings. Anal sex is of course a whole different... what? ball of wax? kettle of fish? I think I'd best stick with "situation".

So, today's question Date Machiners: Who's using lube and why?

 

Hugh Jackman

 

 

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Posted Nov 20 2008, 07:02 PM
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airheadgenius said:

oh bugger, just realised that ambo posted Hugh Jackman too. I want him the most though so he's staying.

November 20, 2008 7:41 PM

theinternationalthreat said:

as a circumcized male of the species, i generally do not NEED to use lube.  assuming my gf and i are adequately turned on, why bother?  besides, unless you use the horrid flavored stuff it precludes spontaneous oral play.

though i should say that after lots of sex or marathon session it becomes increasingly useful.

and for anal, as im sure you know, its absolutely necessary.  the more the better....

what are your usage patterns, airhead?

November 20, 2008 9:15 PM

zeitgeisty said:

yeah I noticed that too... I was kind of disappointed that no one would cop to which one they were... However, I did notice no one DISPUTED my descriptions..

November 20, 2008 10:54 PM

profrobert said:

"Squat" in the context of the phrase "don't know squat" is polite-speak for "shit."  (Men squat for only two reasons, and I'm certain the phrase doesn't refer to the act of receiving a pitched baseball.)

November 21, 2008 1:07 PM

airheadgenius said:

theinternationalthreat - the authorities are no doubt not all that worried about you as an international threat given your tendency to skim read. My usage was laid bare in wot I rote.

zeit - I claimed a barbara but refuse to elaborate. I have been told on many occasion that it's pretty though.

prof - thank you. That was useful.

November 21, 2008 1:54 PM

shakti_vos said:

i don't tend to use lube.  and only sometimes w/anal...i don't know, for whatever reason it's not usually necessary.  i don't identify as a bisexual, but i've been with women, and in my work, i've seen a lot of vaginas.  so i feel like i have a an "intimate" knowledge of them.  they're quite odd looking when pushing out a baby!

November 21, 2008 2:24 PM

anathema_teatime said:

Yays. I am not alone! I have never heard anyone else say that they don't use lube for anal. I'm no sure why either . . . I do like it a bit rough and painful, but still. Never had any real aftereffects. Maybe because my boyfriend's uncut?

November 22, 2008 5:27 PM

Blueruin said:

I can't see why someone would use lube if the woman is turned on.

Although I started reading this and I'm wondering why the woman's occasional inability to get wet (Although I've never experienced it personally) doesn't have the same stigma attached to it as impotence in men.

November 22, 2008 11:01 PM

Thea said:

Maybe not the same stigma but definitely the same embarassment.

November 23, 2008 7:11 PM

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