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For 8 months I've been writing everyday on the topics of sex, dating and relationships from my own highly subjective point of view... Over the weekend, I thought it might be interesting if I actually went out and asked some people on the street a couple of questions on these matters... The first topic I chose was 'the nature of attraction'... I was actually impressed by how forthcoming, and into it everyone was... Unfortunately it's a bit pixelated in spots, but what the hell, it was my first attempt! So here it is... I'm gonna try and make it a SEMI regular feature...who knows maybe once a month or so?
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That's a great format, z. I really enjoyed it :)
thanks!
nice! that guy in the end made me laugh.
he was definitely the most entertaining... For some reason, after watching it, I kept thinking that I remind myself of Anthony Bourdain... Don't know why...
Anthony Bourdain? How?
dunno,, in some weird indefinable way..
Okay... the Lou Reed of cooking shows aside...
I like the idea of the video blog. The last guy seemed kind of incongruous to the rest though. He was no more or less vapid than the others. Attraction is attraction. Someone has, as you may call it, an indefinable something.
Was his inclusion entertaining? I don't know. It struck me as the same sort of thing Howard Stern used to do when he'd round up homeless guys and bring them into the studio and "talked jive" with them... gave them messed up names like Mahatma MaCoat and Uncle Remus. Not my sort of humor at all. And juxtaposed against the other shiny, middle class Avenue A scenesters... just looks like a cheap shot.
Lou Reed of cooking shows? You say that as if it's a bad thing...
It's funny what you say about a cheap shot.... When that guy came up to us and started talking with us, I thought to myself... hmm.. I wonder if I should tape him and ask him the attraction question, but I know there's gonna be at least one person who was gonna make some knee jerk politically correct comment about how it was exploitive.... I decided to include him, 'cause he was so forthcoming and genuine, and really entertaining.. I think your reaction in it's own way is condescending and vaguely prejudiced... How was he entertaining? It's obvious isn't it... he was funny and genuine, and charming.... your response is just typical PC bullshit
I like Lou Reed, musically anyway, so that comparison is positive. I like Anthony Bourdain also.
In regards to being PC, that's something I'm rarely accused of being. And your response and accusation are exactly how Howard Stern responds when people express distaste or discomfort with what he calls humor.
The gentleman on his own probably came across as funny and genuine and charming. Your presentation of him though just seemed out of step with the timbre of the rest of the video. That's what raised my eyebrow. Not the man himself. You created a situation where anybody with a critical eye might ask, "what's that about?" I had a roommate years ago that LOVED Howard Stern. That's what it reminded me of.
I find it hard to believe you've never heard that term leveled at you before... As for how I 'presented' him differently, that's just ridiculous... I was on the way out, and that guy had seen us filming and came up to us to chat... He asked us what it was about, and we told him, and then asked him if we could video tape him asking the EXACT questions we asked everyone else... You're looking for something that's just not there, you my friend are PROJECTING...
Z... Firstly, the term "politically correct" is a term that has probably been misused more often than "yuppie" and "hipster." It really only applies in political situations when someone jockeying for some position of power or whatever toes a specific line, usually insincerely, to appease their constituency. There is no constituency here.
Secondly, I'm sure that back in the Zeitgeisty schooldays you played the game, One of These Things Is Not Like The Other. So maybe the gentleman's placement in the video was entirely random, but the fact remains that your presentation played out thusly: O O O O X I'm not saying you set it up that way, but the end result is totally Howard Stern humor. In a larger sample of people it would not appear so conspicuous. I can't look for something that you don't offer up on a plate.
And in regards to projecting, that's kind of an "I know you are but what am I," response.
One of these things is not like the other? How so? How is he not like the others? He's a human being with opinions and insight.. How is he not like the other??
I just don't buy it... You see what you want to see, you had some type of bug up your ass about me from the beginning, and this is just yet another example of you trying to portray me in some negative light...
That's fine, but that's all I have to say as far as this is concerned, however, I can state categorically that I resent the slimy insinuations you've leveled at me concerning this post and the other one I took down the other day...
You should examine why you resent me so much.. I'm sure you'll find it all stems from you my friend...
Zeitgeisty--Everybody sees what they see, each person informed by their individual catalog of life experience and observation. It's no always a question of seeing what one would prefer to see. I don't consider that a problem.
For example, you say I have a personal gripe with you, or "a bug up my ass" if you will. I just see it as two people having wildly different sensibilities.
I have very strong opinions on a lot of topics. People challenge them all the time. It's very, very rare that I take that personally and turn and ask, "what's your problem with me?" I was under the impression that the very idea of an online forum was a free exchange of ideas, dissenting and otherwise. Perhaps you would prefer it to be more like a personal showcase, similar maybe to a band audition, or a stand-up comedy routine. Perhaps you would prefer a mutual admiration society?
This is sort of a minor conundrum. You present very strong opinions on this blog, in what I'm sure you see as somewhat edgy or even controversial. Yet when controversy on any level arises, you get all squirrelly and cagey. If you're going to goad, you should stand up for your convictions and expect a response.
I'm certainly not the only reader who has taken issue with some of your ideas. Does everybody have a personal gripe with you? Do they all "resent" you? That just sounds paranoid. Do you see some vast right wing conspiracy?
differences of of opinion are great..Still, you don't know who I am or what I do outside of this forum, and the fact that you have in two posts now insinuated ugly things specifically about prejudice.. that's just like throwing a molotov cocktail in the room... that's not debate, that's not differing opinions.. You don't know me... you keep asserting this moronic assumption which could not be further from the truth... This is what makes me 'squirrely' ...I don't need a mutual admiration society, just a little respect that's all...
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