Maybe this first confession wasn't about someone contacting an ex and trying to be friends, but for some reason that's how I read it and understood it. (correct me if I'm wrong)
"I didn't contact you to stir up trouble. I wanted to try to be the friends you always said we were."
I was only ever able to be friends with one ex. I wouldn't trade that friendship for anything. I could never be friends with DreamBoy because it just got too messy at the end and he ended up saying things that he shouldn't have said (I often wonder if ever regrets that - do we ever, though?). The ironic part about that one is that before we dated, and many years ago, we were best friends and I had refused to date him because I didn't want to "ruin the friendship". Funny how shit works out sometimes.
"I think maybe I shouldn't be friends with you. I thought if I just acted like normal friends the depression from what you did would go away with time. But it hasn't. Maybe we shouldn't be friends."
"I really need to talk to a friend right now and the only person I trust with a secret (all of my other friends and I are so close, nothing is ever kept for long) is my "ex". But, I'm afraid he'll take my need for a "friend" as something more."
I never understood why women (and some men) always seem to insist on trying to be friends with exes. Unless you had some kind of great friendship within the relationship, friendship after breaking up seems not only pointless, but not possible. I know a few couples who have been together for a while and you can tell that while they do the boyfriend-girlfriend thing great, they also have a great friendship base. I've also seen a lot of couples that you damn well know if they weren't banging each other, they'd probably hate each other.
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