Ahhh, oral sex. Giving it, receiving it, doesn't matter - It's one of life's little joys. It's good to know some basic do's and don'ts when it comes to going down.
Do Make Eye Contact
Whether you're giving or receiving, making eye contact with your partner is a huge turn on. It shows that you're connected - not in the "Big Brother" "I really feel like we have a connection even though we're both competing for a million bucks" connection, but the "I am here, you are here, and we are having incredible sex right now" connection. It's also a great way to tell if you're both into it. If you keep your eyes closed tight during the whole thing, you might come off as a "God I can't wait for this to be over" prude.
Do Start Off Slow
For most women (there are always exceptions) jumping right in to it and attacking her clit like an ice cream cone can often have the opposite effect you're going for. Make small steps interesting by kissing, licking and teasing before going for the gold. The same goes for men. Jumping his cock and trying to race to the finish line is not the best way to get him to come. By going slow you build up the anticipation of what's to come, literally. When s/he wants you to pick up speed, they will let you know.
Do Make It Your Choice to Spit Or Swallow
Everyone has their own preference for this eternal debate. Whether you spit into a towel or Kleenex or gulp it down and pretend to love it, the choice is ultimately the person who will end up with the mouthful of jizz. There is no real reason not to swallow, if you're worried about health concerns. Unless your guy has a case of funky spunk, the taste is nothing horrible and tastes better than tofu soaked in brussel sprouts. If you're worried about gagging, just keep a towel or tissue close by for you to spit into. For some reason unbeknown to humans, however, guys love when you swallow their sperm. The fact that their little men have just made it down your throat canal is a huge turn on.
Don't advertise your blow job on a billboard.
Your dick isn't that big, even if your ego is.
Don't use your teeth.
Little nibbles on the inner thigh? Cute. Sinking your teeth into your man's penis? Not cute.
Don't blow air into the vagina.
It does not feel good. Case closed.
Don't make slurping noises unless your partner likes that.
(FYI: They probably don't.) But do let her/him know you're enjoying the hard work by giving little moans/groans of enjoyment.
Don't suck directly on the clitoris for long periods of time.
It gets uncomfortable after a while and you'll probably get that tap, tap on your shoulder.
For women, don't be afraid to use your hands.
While your mouth is busy with his cock, use your hands and play with his balls. Or switch it around, use your hands to play with his cock while you suck/lick his balls. He'll thank you for it after, trust me. When you have one of his balls in your mouth, it's the perfect time to ask for that necklace/jacket/bag.
For men, mix it up a bit. Don't constantly lick in one place.
Flick, lick, nibble and swirl with your tongue. Use your hands and explore the rest of her. If you have bad hand-eye coordination, keep your hands on her breasts and play with her nipples.
When in doubt, ask your partner if you're doing it to their satisfaction.
If you get that tap, tap on your shoulder, don't persist on continuing. A woman knows if she's going to come or not that night. If she taps you on the shoulder and does that little head shake, at least she's being kind to you and letting you know so you don't get a tongue cramp in twenty minutes. It might make your dick shrink, but it's better than forcing something that ain't going to happen.
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