Wow!  Lainie Kazan is absolutely gorgeous!  I've always dismissed her as a kvetching mom-type, but check out this black and white photo where she's teasing her hair properly and wearing a lil' shirt tied at the waist (www.lainiekazan.com/gal1tum.html).  Inspiring!  

I have a friend who is TOTALLY into Lanie Kazan and for him I found a her playboy spread online. he was very happy. she is soooo sexy.

wow that was bad english, sorry its 1:39 am and I spent 8 hours today listening to boring lectures so my brain is fried.

Actually, I think some of those things are pretty bad.  Maybe I'm just sensitive, though.  Whenever I read guys admitting to things like this, it kind of makes me wonder if just dating women would be a good idea.  Anyway, it makes me think I haven't been as mean as I was afraid I'd been, but I guess I've got years to go.

I'm totally not trying to be an asshole here, just commenting, because this post seems to get at something that I really, really don't get in many relationships. I can't see doing any of these things to someone you liked. And I don't understand having an ongoing sexual relationship with someone you don't like. I know tons of people do it for reasons including "I was bored," "I thought it was the best I could do," "She was paying my rent," or whatever. And hey, if it works for you, good on ya. Just from a personal standpoint, I don't think I could do it. And this from someone who (very) briefly considered the escort business when I was a starving but hot college student. Decided I couldn't do it because I don't think I could pretend to like someone I found repulsive, And I thought that would be necessary for the job. Knowing what I know now about the ways humans interact, probably not.

No Toluca, you are not just sensitive. Those things WERE bad. Unless it's just us? You broke up with someone out of the blue after living with her for three years and never spoke to her again over breast size? I'd like to think she never spoke to you again.  Don't ruin it for me and write saying she called you over and over again crying and asking why... Pinching your ladies fat followed up by a diet and gym recommendation? Bad!

yeah, you really do.

I think an interesting subject for a blog post would be, the things that ex/current lovers have DONE TO YOU, to make you cringe/feel embarrassed.  Now that would expose some deep seated issues!

Or perhaps I'm just a sucker for punishment.

These aren't just "cringe-worthy," they're flat out embarrassing. I suspect, though, that they're exaggerated--probably in service of divorcing yourself from the exact circumstances.