have you ever thought that maybe you make a chick feel like she has to take her time with you? maybe you make chicks nervous? maybe you make them feel like youre judging them or something...

I have done the dick grabbing but only when the situation is all hot and heavy and urgent. maybe YOU need to make that situation come about somehow. Besides, if a chick doesnt know anything about your bedroom technique then maybe she would feel like if she skipped the preliminaries with you, you would do the same when it was her turn to be pleasured (and you know women do not like that).

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... fucking genius!

goddamn-able....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Wow. It's never occurred to me not to grab said object at the earliest moment that it would be polite. (Like, sometimes good to leave dinner with the parents first.) I have heard objections in the car whilst driving, and once from the guy I was having a sleazy affair with in my office, during work hours, but only when I got really goal-oriented with the whole thing. Maybe you're not dating goal-oriented women?

good point tea-time. Zeitgeisty has admitted to liking demure ladies best (provided they have large beautiful breasts). you can't have your cake AND your dick grabbed too!

HELLO! I was joking too!!! next time Ill just put a little smiley face next to my jokes, I know how much you like that.

:)

Uh, yes, women feel the same way.  Enough twiddling my nipple.    Just get your fingers inside of me already.

Umm... Isn't most fun to mix it up?

Like, sometimes take it slow, othertimes don't...

That being said, I was with one guy who liked to put my hand exactly where he wanted it and tell me exactly what he wanted.  It wasn't all that sexy at the time, but afterwards it took me awhile to get used to taking more initiative with guys.  I was hesitant BECAUSE I expected them to direct me to what they wanted, because that's what I was used to.  

Yeah, men have accused me of not being romantic enough because I sort of always have my, er, eyes on the prize. These are not men I would want to have much more to do with, though it used to hurt my feelings and make me wonder if I was too pushy or manly or something when I was younger. Then I realized these were the same guys who got annoyed when I forwarded thorugh the boring bits in porno . . . I guess they were interested in story development throughout Back Door Cream Pie Bonanza.

It seems some girls just want to lay there and that's that. I go out of my way to please a girl. Why cant they do the same? Or am I not picking up the right whore?

I'm with air and dlg on this, the road goes both ways. Is there a male equivalent to Cosmo's sex tips? Who is telling them that we want to be blown on or tweaked? Quit fucking around and start fucking -me-!

Maybe you need to get a T-Shirt printed that reads "ROCK MY WORLD" and wear it out, often.

Mike C -Maybe using the term "whore" is not the best pick-up strategy?

Crap, now I'm going to have to ask my boyfriend if he just wants me quit the relay and grab the torch already.

And now I wonder if he is fake moaning.

dammit