Everything in life, all we hold dear to our hearts, the totality of mankind, EVERYTHING is based on lies. Flat out lies. Not mamby pamby bending of truths, and ‘bobbing and weaving’, but completely unadulterated lies.
Religion, true love, relationships, the pie in the sky, the American dream, family… it’s all based on one eternal river of manure that’s been flowing since the beginning of time.
Do we ever tell the absolute truth about anything? Fuck no! This is how most relationships work, people need to delude themselves and lie to their partners to keep it going at all costs. The problems start to arise when people STOP lying. Take a look at who you’re with right now.. Does she think you’re ‘the one’? Do you think she’s ‘the one’? If you asked her who the best lover she’s ever had was, do you think it’d be you? Is she more attracted to you than anyone she’s ever been with? Are you attracted to her? What does she REALLY think about you? Do you want to know?
Do we want to know the absolute truth?
Don’t get me wrong, I want to know the FACTS i.e. health (mental and physical), proclivities (sexual and otherwise), etc.. Do I want to know the TRUTH? Well, I’m a bit of a masochist, so I have been caught up in that thorn bush before. In fact, I would probably say it’s my Achilles heel. Still, I’m fucked up, I’m no example! If you want to live the life of the mind and be miserable then go with truth.. if you want to be happy – LIE.
I believe if we REALLY knew what other people thought about us, we’d be so traumatized we couldn’t function. I’d venture to say, even our family members probably harbor some very troubling thoughts about us. I mean, look at Uncle Charlie over there…he’s all shifty eyed – who knows what he’s thinking!
In relationships, we’re usually all the 3rd choice of who we’re with.. at best 2nd choice. I mean it stands to reason doesn’t it? When are we ever on an equal footing? So all this being said, what’s so wrong about telling people what they want to hear? I mean, even if it comes to naught, and the relationship peters out, at least we come away from it not completely demoralized, decimated and broken.
Now, let me just add to this mix the fact that I think people are way too oblivious about life in general. One should always be ‘on point’ in order to not get blindsided by whatever might come down that pike. I’ve learned long ago that keeping one’s guard up is not a negative thing as many people say it is. In fact - it’s essential! I’m prepared for anything. I’ve had some horribly devastating ‘truths’ hurled at my head with diamond like precision, and I’ve weathered it all, because I never let my guard down.
Some might say that living a life of lies, constantly on guard for an assault of truth is no way to live at all… I agree. Still, this is the fabric that clothes us all. There’s no escaping the ultimate truth that life is ‘nasty, brutish and short’. This is across the board. Humans are dangerous creatures, we treat each other horribly, we treat other animals horribly, and we treat our own selves horribly - not only horribly, but with a distinct cruelty.
So, when I hear all this righteous indignation about ‘the truth’ , I’m always really taken back by the naiveté. No one you’re in a relationship with wants to hear the truth. They want to be in the arms of someone that is warm, and comforting.. someone that is only thinking of them. They don’t want to hear about your uncertainties, doubts, or misgivings… They want to be LIED TO!
EVERYTHING IS BASED ON LIES... flat out LIES.
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